Strippers at Bachelor Party?
Posted 09 October 2008 - 11:09 AM
Posted 09 October 2008 - 11:21 AM
Jay isn't really interested in the whole thing ... but when they boys want to go he joins in to be one of the guys .. and when we all have nothing else better to do a group goes.. I do still feel odd when a girl right in front of me is showing her stuff to Jay.. but I know where his mind is on it.. It's still hard not be jealous over it all. Good luck with things Casey and it will be fine... you know where and who he is coming home to .. and for a night of manly rediculousness .. it always happens.
Posted 09 October 2008 - 11:30 AM
Posted 09 October 2008 - 11:31 AM
Posted 09 October 2008 - 11:32 AM
There have been times when T has gone with friends to strip clubs for either bach party or just a rowdy night and inside I cringe but I have to tell myself the he's coming hoem to me line. It is true but i can totally relate to the cringing thought of another womans breasts in his face. Funny that many guys say that they aren't interested in it yet still go- on occasion.
It's all about fantasy....
Posted 09 October 2008 - 11:35 AM
Is this TMI? Haha.
Posted 09 October 2008 - 11:42 AM
I go through phases with feeling weird about porn. In the past I have tried to jump on the bandwagon so to speak and it may enhance the situation for a bit but I just want my man to expect that all the time. Does this make sense? I think in healthy doses it can enhance and even help a sexual relationship but I think it's also about the communication involved. As long as both people involved are into it- as opposed to someone doing it for the other becuase they feel an obligation.
I think that there are alot of people that become obsessed with that detachment from a real person and only want to watch porn on their own on the internet or whatever. That's when I think teh communication needs to happen. Why does he/she feel that is fullfilling a need that a real person isn't. That sort of thing.
Posted 09 October 2008 - 12:00 PM
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