My FI said he doesn't want to get married....and our wedding is in less than 3 months
Posted 22 September 2008 - 02:20 PM
| Originally Posted by dainanewell |
We finally talked and agreed to try to make it work....i still dont know if he wants to get married but hopefully he will answer that question soon...thanks Ladies
i would imagine that this close to the wedding, it's probably not possible for you, nor your guests who have booked, to get refunds and it would create a huge mess and bad feelings among both families. i.e., if you guys work things out later, people might continue to think badly of him because of this, and most would not sign on to come to a new wedding, ya know?
i do have a suggestion regarding this: if you were planning a legal ceremony, you could switch it to a solely symbolic one (if he would be in agreement to do so). your families and other guests would know no different, and the symbolic wedding would have meaning for your children. then if you later decided to make it legal, you could do a quick paper-signing legal thing at city hall.
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