family? friends? who needs 'em?
Posted 09 August 2008 - 09:14 AM
I just had a ton of that negativity happen yesterday, a mere 7 days before deposits need to be in, and it was time for me to snap!!
I have good thoughts today - am off to get my hair done and pick up my dress
I don't post a ton on here (we have dial up and it is ridiculously slow) but I do lurk... its nice to know there is a shoulder to cry on or someone to listen to your rant when you just need to let it out.
thanks a ton!!!!
Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:37 AM
Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:39 AM
| Originally Posted by Chantal85 |
You are not alone! I hear you! Goodness do I ever know that feeling of being sick and tired. I've been hearing passive aggressive comments from the in-laws side and my own mother stomps her feet at every wedding detail we discuss. In fact, we aren't on speaking terms right now because she upsets me so much, making me feel bad about my wedding choice.
I've been so upset that I have turned to my FI and said "I don't want a wedding!"
But my FI has a good motto that he has adopted...(excuse the profanity) but he says "F**K 'EM!" because in the end, its just the two of us in this relationship.
If this is what you and your FI want, do it. Those who don't want to co-operate or join in are definitely missing out. If there's one thing I've learned from this forum, its that most DW guests end up having the time of their life.
Don't beat yourself up. This trouble is fairly normal. I end this reply wishing you strength and happiness....and a fantastic wedding in PV!
Posted 09 August 2008 - 11:45 AM
Now that I am married I wouldn't change a thing. Our wedding was perfect for us.
BIL got married 3 weeks before us (long story) and you couldn't pay me to go through all of the crap they went through for the big traditional wedding.
I had enough stress with my AHR, I can't imagine having to get married on top of that!
You just need to take a step back and relax and do what you want to do. Those who can/want to be there will find a way. and those are the people you want with you. Those that don't make it, well that's their loss.
Posted 09 August 2008 - 01:29 PM
PS. This might not be the nicest thing, but I tell people, the only two people who need to be present are my fiance and I...
even though I would like people to be there, the ones who are excited for us and to be there... don't worry! It will come together!!!
Posted 09 August 2008 - 01:42 PM
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