BM dress copying... is this offensive?
Posted 15 July 2008 - 02:06 PM
However, I have this feeling I might be offending her sister by using the same dresses. Would anyone be offended if a friend of yours wanted to have the same dresses in her wedding? (only one or two people would actually end up attending both weddings but maybe a dozen or so would see pictures).
Posted 15 July 2008 - 02:09 PM
Posted 15 July 2008 - 02:11 PM
If you are concerned, talk to the sister if you are close. If you aren't close I don't think it matters.
Tell her she had great taste and you hope she is excited to share her find with you. I think if you put a positive spin on it will be fine. I personally wouldn't mention the saving money aspect, because I wouldn't want anyone to feel like we were using "leftovers".
Posted 15 July 2008 - 02:22 PM
Posted 15 July 2008 - 02:48 PM
I personally wouldnt care because the BM dresses are supposed to compliment the bride ... so in terms of my theme and whatnot, they are a piece of the picture -- but ultimately, people are looking at the bride anyway. When I see wedding pictures, I see the bride's dress... but I ultimately see just the color of the BM dresses -- I guess I just don't pay attention to the style all that much.
Posted 15 July 2008 - 02:58 PM
doesn't hurt to have a conversation. who would actually say "yes, i mind"??
Posted 15 July 2008 - 03:01 PM
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