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  1. Quote: Originally Posted by BeachBride2Be I am glad someone is clearing this up because I was also confused. I almost booked Tammy at elite but one of the brides from brides.com sent me this. Elite Travel Group- Clearwater, FL. Review - "Extremely Unprofessional Customer Service" - Viewpoints Unfortunately, I can say I'm not AT ALL surprised with this response. It is very characteristic of them to take this approach. And also sad. I will never use Tammy Levent/ELITE travel again. It was my mistake to go with her and I had to pay for it. That is why I posted this thread. To have others avoid what I went through. It's just not worth it. Stick with Tammy Wright. Again, I've never met her but through our phone conversations I know she would've handled my wedding a gazillion times better!
  2. Yeah Amy! Glad to hear your wedding was a SUCCESS! And I'm so jealous you got to spend that much time in Tulum! You look amazing and most importantly HAPPY! Congrats!
  3. Neen, there are always a handful of taxis just waiting at the resort. You can also ask concierge to call in some additional ones if needed. I'm not sure about the ipod. I have a regular size one and it worked fine. But for our bonfire, I bought one of those ipod docking stations from Walgreens for 10 bucks. I loaded batteries in it and it worked wonders. The ipod docking station in the rooms isn't too big but in my opinion a little bulky and not sure if you can remove to take around the resort. I don't remember it too much but I think it was a combo ipod/alarm clock kind of gadget.
  4. My DH and his buds went to Puerto Aventuras Golf Course. It's a 9 hole course you have to play twice to get in the 18 holes. It was a total of $86 pp and you can play all day for that price. My DH wanted to play another course but they are all sooo much more expensive and he didn't want to ask his buds to pay another $170 on top of the vacation cost. FYI, my brother stayed at the Fairmont over the summer and played the course. He said it was amazing. If you can afford it...go for it!
  5. I personally checked 4 bags, gave one to my mother, one to my sister and two to my DH. I went to Marshall's and bought 3 HUGE duffel bags for 10 bucks each. Yes, they weren't the best quality but they helped get my stuff down there! And then I just stuffed them into another suitcase on the return. I received lots of gift before we left and saved all the bubble wrap so I used it to wrap my more delicate stuff. Everything went great, nothing broke and we got a green light at customs so it wasn't an issue at all. As for my dres, my mom and I sat in first class on the plane and i was able to lay my dress on an overhead compartment the flight attendant reserved just for me. I've heard others do the same so you shouldn't have a problem.
  6. Finding a travel agent, let alone a darn good one, is tough so I thought I would post this message to try to help those who are just starting the process. When I first began researching a resort I was surfing a gazillion websites and forums on the web. I heard so much about a certain Tammy and decided to contact her and book her as my agent. Well, turns out, I contacted the wrong one! Tammy Wright is the amazing creator of this forum and is also a travel agent out of California. She specializes in destination weddings. Tammy Levent is also a travel agent who specializes in destination weddings but does NOT run this website or is in anyway associated with BDW. When I first booked I thought I had contacted Tammy Wright. Months later, I realized the Tammy I hired wasn't the one who runs this forum. My advice? If you are wanting to hire, contact, or even just chat with the Tammy from this forum PM her or email her at : tammy@wrighttravelagency.com I don't know either of these Tammy's personally but have dealt with both of them professionally. Notice I said I made the mistake of hiring the wrong Tammy. There is a difference between them. If you have any questions just PM. I'd love to help. Hope this may avoid other confusions!
  7. Quote: Originally Posted by neen since no one seems to have used the resort DJ, I've decided to book DJ Mannia for my wedding next month. i just have to pay for a night pass for him, right? Neen, no night pass is necessary! I didn't have to pay anything extra for him. Congrats! You will LOVE DJ Mannia. He will make your wedding sooo much fun!
  8. Amy, I just re read your thread (my hubby was talking to me on the first read) and noticed you said your immediate family got upgraded for free! WHAT?!?! This pisses me off to no extent. My check-in was a nightmare!!! And my sister and father had to PAY to be placed in the same building I was in. I needed them close because they helped me with everything and so I told the front desk to just put them in my building and we would pay the difference! What a load of crock! This is what bothers me about DT. They are so INCONSISTENT. sorry, just had to rant. Oh, and you're right, their "oceanview" rooms are not really oceanview. I was in 6203 and can only see the palm trees. Make sure you get an ocean front OR a room on the 3rd floor.
  9. Yay Amy! So glad you had an awesome experience! I only wish I would've stayed there long enough to see it all happen! Great job on the review! And it's so nice to hear they got everything perfect for you. Funny you said Daniel arranged for you to stay an extra night for free. After all the stress we all went through during the closure it was the least they could do. Congratulations and please, please post more pics!!!!
  10. Neen, it was $450 for the fabric. Magda, the florist bought it for us. And despite being told by Sandra during our site visit that we would not be charged for the resort to put it up, we paid $150 in set up fee. I get that they had to get extra people to do it so therefore I didn't put up a fight. My issue though is why was I told one thing and then had to dish out more $$$ to get it done?? Plus, the cost of the firedancers also went up even though I was told something different.
  11. Quote: Originally Posted by ashjanbro Karla, Congratulations on your wedding! Despite all of the things that you weren't exactly thrilled about, everything looked beautiful. Including you! I too, appreciate the very honest review. I would love to see more pics from the resort photographer because I am using him as well. I am also wondering if you minded putting together a list of questions you think we should definitely remember to ask Landy (i.e the week before during the over the phone conversation, and once there in person)? Thanks again for such a great review. Oh, and one more thing. You mentioned that fire dancers were part of the entertainment during the week. Did you think it was okay having them for the reception even though they had performed during the week? I asked Landy about everything and anything I could imagine! Just be prepared for her to tell you she will have to get back to you on the prices. And in my case, I left several days later so I didn't get them until I arrived. My DH and I wanted to have a "casino night" for after our welcome dinner and asked about that. She hadn't done something like that before so she had to get back to me on the price. I asked about renting lounge furniture, fire dancers, menu for the welcome dinner, asked if she could arrange to show the NFL games on Thanksgiving day (they did that at no cost). Geez, I asked about everything but most of the things she didn't have prices for. As for the fire dancers, they performed on Wednesday the week I was there. Half of my guests arrived on Thursday so they didn't get a chance to see the show. Most of the guests who arrived earlier didn't get to see the show either because we had late dinners and usually didn't make it out of the restaurants until after the shows were over. So I'm glad we hired them as part of our wedding! For those of you wanting more pics from the resort photographer let me work on it! Don't get too discouraged by my review. But also don't get too discouraged if the photog doesn't do the creative, artistic pictures we've all seen and love on this forum. i.e Del Sol, Jean-Marcus etc etc. Their photog is just like if you had a friend take all your pictures. They don't edit them, don't add or delete colors. Its just the same picture your dad probably took. Also, he would snap, snap, snap away without caring if our eyes were closed, if one of us was looking in the wrong direction. For example, I really wanted a family picture . There are 10 of us and in the picture half of us aren't looking at the camera, my moms eyes are closed and the photog only took one. Soooo, I have no family picture! Just things like that. If you hire the resort photog, my suggestion is to stay on him! And tell him what pictures are important to you and that you are willing to have to shoot 2,3 or 4 takes of the same pose until you got it right. If not, he will just shoot, shoot, shoot without knowing if they are good. ALSO TO CONSIDER, they have several photographers at the resort so there is no guarantee which one will shoot your wedding. Maybe some are better than others? It may not be the guy who shot my pictures (who by the way kept calling me the wrong name all night!).
  12. FINALLY! whew! took me forever! Enjoy my review ladies and feel free to ask away! http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...455#post626588
  13. CENTERPIECES CANDY BUFFET TABLE SIGN (candies were from him!) FIREDANCERS (awesome!) THE POMANDERS AT OUR CEREMONY BECAME OUR CENTERPIECES (they were so expensive I just had to reuse them!) TRASH THE DRESS PIC
  14. Our initials made out of flowers for the chapel door. Not at all like the picture I gave the florist but oh well. CLOSER LOOK AT INITIALS MADE OUT OF FLOWERS POMANDERS I ASKED FOR TO BE HUNG AT EACH PEW BUT NOT ANYTHING LIKE I WANTED BRIDESMAID DRESSES MY SHOES and well my dress is my avatar! APPETIZERS AT COCKTAIL HOUR RECEPTION DECORATIONS GUESTS DANCING (notice the shiny fabric draped?) CAKE AND GUEST BOOK
  15. Alright ladies, here ya go! I've been putting this off for a couple of days because I just know it's going to take me mucho time to write this. But, I'm giving in to my laziness for all those who like me, think these reviews are important and helpful. First off, although it's redundant I know it's so true. My wedding would NOT have been as fabulous without BDW. Tammy, thanks for this great forum and your time and commitment to us all. For those of you who haven't booked a TA, here's your chance to book an awesome travel agent. Tammy didn't start out as my TA but when the sh*@t hit the fan at DT, she stepped up to the plate. I quickly diverted any guests who hadn't booked to her and not only did she set them up, she was on top of the resort closure and on top of putting my mind at ease! So many others to thank but I won't bore you with a long list. Milejilo, Amy706, SandyW, Sunbride, and Amesharpe, get a special mention because they were my go to girls to vent and/or ask for help!! Thanks ladies! Since I didn't have time to post my planning thread, I will sprinkle some of it here. Hence, be ready for a loooooong read! DREAMS TULUM RESORT... GRADE: A Most of you know the NIGHTMARE we DT brides recently went through. My heart goes out to the brides who actually were relocated. If my experience with the resort was spotty I can only imagine what it was like dealing with DT personnel at another resort. I went down for a site visit in February and fell in love with the resort chapel, the service, the kid friendly activities, and the fact it is isolated and away from any other resort. And frankly, I also fell in love with their prices (among the cheapest for the level of resort). The place is beautiful, not too big, not too small. And the beach was good. I read on BDW I should pack water shoes and although I encouraged all of my guests to do so as well, we didn't need them at all. The beach was not rocky. I also included a bottle of OFF in all of my OOT bags but it too was something no one used. It may be the time of year but no water shoes, no insect repellant were needed. Most all the staff was extremely friendly and ready to help. You will love this hotel! All my guests raved about it. And some are talking about going back. Even though it's a loooong drive, it's worth it. Well worth it. CHECK-IN...GRADE: F We did have MAJOR problems with check in. And the resort never seemed to get it right. When I checked-in, the receptionist tried to give me a lower category room. I told him he was wrong, he thought he was right, and so the arguing began. He told me we had a gardenview dreams suite when we really had an oceanview room. Then his argument was, no oceanview rooms were available. After minutes of going back and forth, he finally succumbed and told me a room suddenly became available. He said it was an "oceanview" room but when I saw it, there was no view of the ocean (6203) just palm trees. When I complained in the morning (it was late when I checked in) he told me it was actually a "partial ocean view". Oh, and remember he insisted there were no other rooms available? Well, I found out later, ALL my guests were offered an upgrade ($40 per night) upon check in. I thought there were no rooms available! Needless to say, we started our trip on a very sour, aggravating note. Unfortunately the saga continued. My DH who arrived one day after my mother and I did, had the same issues during check-in. Only this time, they told him they had no reservation for him! WTF?!!? After he finally got it squared away, he stayed in a room by himself up until the wedding day. My mother and I stayed in a room together. The plan was for me to "move" to his room on our wedding night and stay there. The front desk knew this plan but still managed to confuse the two rooms. Sooo, on our wedding night, the nice little "package" the resort leaves for couples was in my Mom's room! She was floored! We had nothing! Didn't matter in the long run but still, it would've been nice. FOOD...GRADE: B One thing I was not too happy with was the food. I remember it being wonderful during my site visit. It was one of the things I raved about to my guests . But once there, I wasn't as impressed. Don't get me wrong. A great majority of food was good. Not great, just good. Very few items were bad. We got around it by basically ordering almost everything on the menu and eating only what we liked. Yes, waste of food sometimes, but hey, it made my palette happy! Surprisingly, the Asian restaurant "Himitsu" was one of the better. Try the bbq spared ribs and fish! Yummy! Sushi was average. World Cafe at breakfast was yummy! Oh, and the food for our wedding is on the "bad" list. More on that later. SPA...GRADE: F Another major disaster. I'm not kidding. I'll try to sum it up as much as possible but here's what you should know. They are extremely disorganized. Enough so, my mother and two other guests weren't able to get their hair done the day of the wedding because they were so backed up. The resort had 8 appointments for us, each one lasting only 30 minutes. I asked the spa receptionist about this because it's never only taken me 30 minutes to get my hair done but she insisted the stylists were fast and could get every girls hair done in 30 minutes each. Yeah right. It took one of my bridesmaids alone 2 hours!!!! Anyway, I emailed the spa weeks before the wedding and thought I had everything arranged. When I arrived the spa receptionist told me there were NO appointments reserved for me and my guests. The problem (in my opinion) is the lack of communication between the spa and the spa office. If you've been there you know the spa is near the lobby but they also have a small office in the veranda bar. So the receptionist at the veranda bar confirmed my appointments but when we showed up, the receptionist at the actual spa told us we had no appointments!! Not good. I felt terrible for my mother although she didn't really care. She's great, and ended up doing her own hair and makeup in 15 minutes back at the room. Oh, and speaking of make-up, don't get it done at the spa. I don't believe they are true make-up artists, just women who know how to apply make-up (don't we all?!). It took her less than 10 minutes to do my make-up! Everytime I look at my pictures I ask myself why I didn't I just do it myself in the 1st place?!?!?!? Because of everything that happened, I spoke with the spa manager, Carlos, a couple of days after the wedding. We told him we booked two couples massages for the day we were leaving and we hoped it wouldn't be as bad an experience as the day of the wedding. I also told him my friend Amy (Amy706) was getting married there a couple of days later and he better not f*@$ it up!. He promised he would fix it. And guess what? When we arrived for our appointments...the receptionist told us we didn't have one! really? You can't get any appointments right? We had to call Carlos and deal with it all over again. What I will say about the spa is once you're in...you will LOVE it. It's beautiful and the masseuse was wonderful! Just be prepared to deal with disorganization. TULUM/PLAYA DEL CARMEN We went to Tulum one afternoon (5 min ride away) and were surprised to find a nice selection of shops. I was thinking we were going to have to go to Playa to get our shopping done but we found what we needed in Tulum. Don't get me wrong. You won't find anything like Playa has to offer but it's good enough to get most of your trinket, souvenir shopping in. We did stop in Playa on our way in ( we rented an SUV) to buy stuff for our OOT bag and other reception items. We had a candy buffett at the reception and bought all of the stuff for it at Sam's. We don't even have a membership there but we asked for a one day courtesy pass and we're allowed in. For those of you who want to buy sunscreen in Mexico beware! It's much, much more expensive. About $11 for a bottle that costs $6 here in the states. STAFF...GRADE A The days after the wedding, my DH and I parked ourselves on the beach and stayed there ALL day. The waiters were constantly offering drinks and food. It was sooo relaxing, we never had to get up! Everyone from waiters, to bellboys, to explorers club were wonderful and eager to help. Luis, at the concierge desk, is my HERO. My DH and I went for a "quick" sail the day we came back home. Well, 15 min into our sail, the wind completely died! We were stuck! So, when we finally made it back to the resort, we only had 10 minutes to pack! We literally threw everything into 6 suitcases and broke every Mexican traffic law while driving to the airport but we made it! Except for two things. Our wedding pictures and MY DRESS! I called the resort the next day and Luis at the concierge desk took care of everything and is fedexing it back. Gracias Luis! I will say however, my sisters expensive running shoes went "missing" during our trip. I'm in no ways blaming housekeeping for it but it is what it is. And even then, the resort was great and sent over two "investigators" who took down a report and promised to interview everyone who went in and out of the room. GYM...GRADE C-It felt like a throwback to a 1980's gym! I'm sure at some point, all the equipment the resort has was top of the line but by today's standards it's pretty funny. I tried a couple of machines and they are so archaic! So, I just did my own routine, hopped on the treadmill and called it a day. NIGHTLY ENTERTAINMENT...GRADE A I'm impressed at the variety the resort offers every night. It really is amazing. Yes, it may not be your cup of tea but at least it gives you something different to do every night. Especially considering the resort is far away from clubs and restaurants. One night, after our wedding, we watched Monday Night Football on this giant screen on the beach. The resort set up a nice area with lounge chairs, popcorn and food. I couldn't believe I was watching my favorite team while lying down on a beach in Tulum! The next night they had a rock n roll band at the disco. As we've said before, the disco is cheesy but if you take your group it will be fun. Other activities, mexican fiesta night with a mechanical bull ride, mayan show with fire dancers, a rock n roll band on the beach. It really is fun! REHEARSAL/WELCOME DINNER...A We met at the chapel for a quick rehearsal. Landy was on time and was great. We did a quick run through, I recommend it, and then went on our way to dinner. Dinner that night was at the buffett because 1) it was free and 2) most importantly, it was the only place we could get the traditional turkey day grub. It was Thanksgiving. Everything went smoothly. I gave Landy centerpieces and runners and she had her staff placed them without a fee. It went very smoothly. FLORIST...GRADE F This, and only this, is why I would re-think my wedding at DT. I get that for some people, flowers aren't that important. However, for me, and for the amount of $$$ we spent, flowers are extremely important. I requested a telephone interview with Landy a week before my wedding ( I highly recommend ). She told me I needed to tell her what flowers I wanted before I arrived because most flowers weren't readily available and needed to be ordered from places like Holland. She even gave me the resort's florists email and phone #. I called the woman, Magda, sent her pics of what I wanted for my centerpieces, chapel flowers etc etc. After a long telephone conversation we agreed on flowers, she promised she could do what I asked for and so I thought we were done. Wrong. I'm so glad I asked Landy I wanted the florist on site during our first meeting because if not I would've gone haywire! So during our 1st meeting, Magda the florist proceeds to tell me she can't do the centerpieces I asked for because the wind might knock them down. I had requested a beautiful, tall arrangement with pomanders and votive candles hanging from the top. Okay, so I understood they were risky and we needed to pick something else. Since she had previously told me she could do the arrangements I didn't bring any other pictures of other centerpieces I liked. I asked Magda, if she had pictures of other arrangements. Perhaps, work she had performed for other weddings. Her answer was no. No pictures of centerpieces, flowers, anything. I didn't know what to do. Landy brought out the resort catalog with pics of centerpieces but I didn't like those. So she went back and got her laptop and we started searching for new ideas, new inspirations. Magda kept telling me she could do this arrangement with such and such flower. That arrangement with such and such flower. They were flowers I've never heard of! And when I asked for pics to see if I liked those flowers she didn't have any!!!! Talk about unprepared! And she's a vendor! All she would say is "don't worry, they're pretty". Basically, I chose my centerpieces blindly having no idea what flowers she would be using and if I would like them. At that point, I asked for the cost and of course she didn't have it. Magda told me she would send over an estimate later that afternoon which of course she didn't. When Landy and I met the following day to pay for the wedding I flipped! The florist wanted to charge me close to $2000 for 7 centerpieces. That's nuts! I immediately told Landy I wasn't going to pay that much to which she replied she didn't know if we could cancel because Magda had probably already bought the bases for the centerpieces. She had to track Magda down and tell her we weren't going to do it. I won't bore you with more details. I will sum up by saying I didn't care for the florist or for her work. I didn't like the final centerpieces and despite emailing her pictures of the flowers I wanted for the chapel, she got it wrong. Flowers were probably my biggest expense in the wedding and they weren't what I thought they would be. They were okay, but not what I imagined. LANDY...GRADE: B+ Landy is so sweet and willing to do almost anything for you...once you're there. My biggest hangup with her is the lack of communication. I considered myself to be a patient bride. I rarely emailed her to ask questions because I knew there were a gazillion brides before me and figured it was only fair to wait my turn. Well, because of the resort closure, I never got my turn. It was announced the resort would re-open about 20 days before I was to leave. I thought I would start hearing from Landy more but I didn't. I had to track her down. And because of the lack of communication...I never knew just how much my wedding would cost. She didn't get back to me with some prices until we met in person. That's a little too late for my taste and I basically either had to agree to the high price or forget about what I wanted. In the end, we spent more $$ for the wedding then expected (by thousands) but it was worth it. I think she's extremely overworked and needs more help. Oh, and make sure you bring a detailed copy of your wedding package. When I was going over the final estimate, I noticed Landy was charging me for two things that were supposed to be included in the ultimate wedding package. I don't think she did it on purpose, she probably gets confused about who's paying the old prices vs. the new prices. Still, the fact I checked my guide and showed her what I was supposed to get for free, saved me a couple hundred $$$. If I had to do it all over again, I would hire an of-site wedding coordinator in a heartbeat. It's not worth the anguish and waiting and waiting for a response. And then when you finally arrive, you learn you may not get what you want exactly how you want it. I will only get married once, and I wanted it to go perfectly and beautifully. I now know I should've had local, outside help to make it happen. WEDDING...GRADE A- I had soooo much fun at my wedding! So much fun, it made up for everything that didn't go right. The ceremony went great. It was planned for 4:30 pm but once in Tulum we realized 4:30 was too late. The sun sets at 5 pm during Nov/Dec. So we bumped up the ceremony for 4pm and despite an earlier start, we had to rush to get in all the pictures at the beach before it was too late. The minister spoke great English and seemed truly geniune. We also hired a violinist who according to guests was great! I had 55 people at my wedding,11 were forced to cancel one week before departure . So with 55 guests, I asked Landy to place extra chairs in the chapel and it all worked out great. It wasn't hot at all and everyone had a seat (my wedding party of 6 stood the entire time). I asked Landy to close the chapel doors right before I was to walk in. A funny thing happened in that as soon as the wedding march began and the doors were opened a bird flew in as I started walking into the chapel. Some guests thought the bird was planned but it wasn't! It was an awesome way to make an entrance! Although we didn't make it, I was told the cocktail hour was really fun. We hired a mariachi band, had appetizers and champagne for toasting. The only negative thing here is I chose the Veranda Bar for the cocktail hour and it was a little warm inside. I picked it because no one is ever in there so I loved the privacy. Plus the decor is very authentic Mexican. However because of the heat, I would pick another place. My reception was at the Seaside Grill. I bought close to $500 in fabric to have it draped on the ceiling and around the columns. Although I asked for chiffon, Landy purchased something else. It wasn't my first choice (you'll see in the pics the fabric shines and thus looks a little tacky) but it worked. Not like the picture I gave Landy but still good enough to really give the Seaside grill a different feel. I also had a candy buffett, a station for "dancing shoes" aka flip flops, guest book table, and cake table. I rented "tiffany chairs" and thought they gave the reception a great touch! The only thing different I would do, aside from flowers,is buy larger chinese lanterns. I bought 24, 12" LED battery operated lights. They were nice but I think it would have looked 10 times better if they were larger. Our menu for the wedding night was surf and turf. I had read great reviews about this dish but honestly was really disappointed. Even my little brother who eats anything and lives at Taco Bell, KFC and McD's, told me he didn't like it. The salad was good, the tortilla soup was good but the actual meat and steak were very bland. Had almost no taste and were a little cold. As for our wedding cake, we chose tres leches with strawberry filling. Here again, we didn't like it! And I think most of my guests must have agreed because about 95% of my cake was left over. I thought they would leave it in our room for the next day but I never saw it again. Wonder what they did with it?!?!? We hired fire dancers and although they were more $$$ than expected they were well worth it! We were supposed to get 3 firedancers but ended up getting 7!!! The group was apparently on their way to another event so all of them stopped at our wedding and gave us their show. They did an amazing job. After being told yes, then no, then yes again, we finally were able to have a bonfire on the beach after the reception! So glad we did because my guests weren't ready to call it a night after the reception ended at 10:30pm. My DH and I left the bonfire around 1 am but I was told the last guests left the bonfire after 2 am! Good sign, huh?! RESORT PHOTOGRAPER...GRADE C I knew going into this I didn't care too much for the wedding day pictures. What I really wanted were great TTD pictures. I figure my sisters, cousins, family all have the traditional wedding pictures on display in their homes. Since our wedding was on a beautiful beach, I know the pictures I'm going to display in my living room and around the house will be the artistic ones on the beach. I also figured, I was bound to get at least a couple of great pictures from the resort photog the day of the wedding. Sure enough, I was right. The resort photog that's part of their wedding packages isn't good. Of about 300 pictures he took that day, only about 7-10 are good. If you want great pictures the day of your wedding, hire a professional. RESORT VIDEOGRAPHER...GRADE C I actually considered extending his time with us so he could capture our reception. So glad I didn't waste my $$$$. He's a very nice guy but it's not the quality I was after. I spent some time with the videographer explaining what I wanted and didn't want as part of our video. I had seen samples and thought some were pretty cheesy. Still, I couldn't even bear to watch it once we got it. It was delivered to our room the day before we left. My DH and I quickly popped it into the dvd player and just couldn't believe how bad it was. It's shaky, the audio is bad and just simply poorly put together. If you want a great DVD of your ceremony, hire a professional. DJ MANNIA...GRADE: A+++++ Of all the vendors, this one was the easiest to deal with and not only did they not disappoint, they surpassed my expectations. I requested a meeting for two days before the wedding because I wanted additional lighting for the reception. The DJ was running late and called me that morning to tell me so. I thought it was a nice touch. Weeks before, I emailed him a long list of songs for our wedding and he brought it to the meeting. There, we agreed on the lighting of the columns of Seaside grill, set up, etc etc. I also told him I was going to give him bags of accessories (silly hats, whistles, sunglasses, necklaces) so that he could hand them out at different times during the reception to get the crowd going. And the day of the wedding everything was delivered as promised!!! My guests are still talking about how great the music was. For my part, I danced all night long! Thank you DJ Mannia. They are great to work with and reasonable in price!!! TTD PHOTOGRAPHER CECILIA DUMAS...GRADE A Ceci is a doll to work with. She showed up on time and ready to work. We lucked out because it turned out to be a cloudy day so the pictures are amazing. I have yet to see all of them but I'm really impresed with the teaser pics she's sent. She's not only nice, but helped me with my hair, carrying clothes, helped with poses. My DH and I had previously scouted the area and found some palapas, palm trees and hammocks at an abandoned home a good, long walk from the resort. I told her about it and she quickly agreed to go there with us. She's just really terrific and soooooo talented. Plus, she's quick which I highly appreciated since my dress got to be very heavy once it got wet! I highly recommend her!!!!! COBA RUINS....GRADE: A Totally worth the trip. Especially considering it's only about 45 minutes from the resort. Be prepared to walk once there if you don't rent a "mayan taxi" for 10 bucks or bikes. I would also recommend wearing tennis shoes to go up the ruins. Give yourself about 2 hours to tour the ruins...extra time to tour the shops. CENOTES...GRADE A I must say most of my guests weren't looking forward to doing this. After the ruins, they just wanted to go back to the hotel to drink and eat! But I knew if I took them they would love it. And sure enough, they did! The water was cold but once in, it felt amazing!! No one in my group had ever swam in a cenote before and they were all glad they did. We went to a kid friendly one about 5 min from Coba. TRANSPORTATION...GRADE B+ We hired Mayan Landscape as our transport company. They were extremely great to work with and reasonable in price. The owner even called several time before our trip to make sure if we were doing okay. And our driver Miguel was so friendly and fun. The only thing with them is to be specific about what excursions they will take you. The zipline they took us was not what we thought it was. It was all of one zipline. You go down once and then it's over. It also didn't seem so secure. There was only one other person on site, the guy who helps pull the zipline, and he wasn't friendly and didn't help any of us strap on the harness. Make sure you are aware of exactly where they're taking you to avoid surprises. mayanlandscape@live.com.mx SUMMARY (finally!) I loved my wedding. I had so much and really enjoyed myself. But I would definitely do things differently if I had do it all over again. For me, the first thing I would do is hire a local wedding coordinator to deal with Landy and also help run the activities of the day. From placement of wedding programs (I brought half of them back because they weren't all laid out in the chapel) to lighting to directing the group. My mom told me she found our wedding guests at the Sugar Reef Bar after our ceremony. An outside WC could've directed the group to the Veranda Bar for the cocktail hour since Landy didn't. Also, I would arrive at the resort at least one day earlier. Because of all the madness with the florist, Landy etc etc I didn't get to spend any play time on the beach with my guests until after our wedding. I arrived on Tuesday for a Friday wedding thinking it would be plenty of time. Should've gotten there at least on Monday. And another big one, I would've done my own makeup. I've taken so much from this forum and now it's my turn to give back. If you have any questions please PM or email me. I WOULD LOVE TO HELP! here are some pics...they are in no order just kinda sprinkled in! OUR WELCOME BOOKS a la Mandy PLACED INSIDE OUR OOT BAGS (they were a hit!) CEREMONY PROGRAMS MENUS (same style as our invitations MIB's) CAME ROLLED UP AND PLACED ON EACH PLATE
  16. Amy, so glad to hear from you! I've been thinking about you all weekend. Ladies, I'm currently working on my review. Be prepared it's sooo long! As my DH said, "wow, that's comprehensive". I loved my wedding and had soooo much fun! But there definitely were some hiccups that pissed the hell out of me. As my Mom says, none of the guests noticed it so I shouldn't have worried. BUT I NOTICED IT, and after working months on the details, I was dissappointed they didn't work out as planned. Still, no worries. It will all come together for you. I promise to get the review up either today or no later than tomorrow. Amesharpe, you are a day away from leaving! Good luck! May you have a FABULOUS wedding!
  17. I will try my best to be there too! I have tons of people arriving that day but am also anxious to meet you guys! Wed. at 4.
  18. Thanks! I really can't believe it's almost here! I leave on the 25th and still have sooo much to do. But it doesn't matter cuz I'm getting married and I'm getting married at DT!!! Oh, and about who got back to me....it was Landy. I actually requested a phone interview and I'm having one with her tomorrow afternoon. Let me know if there is something urgent you need me to ask her. I agree with SandyW about the wine. For the most part, it just isn't good. Oh, and there ISN'T a Costco in Tulum. In fact, there really isn't much of anything. The Costco is in Playa del Carmen. We're stopping there on our way in. Sandyw, aren't you leaving soooooon?!?!??! Crazy to think we were all sh*&$$ing bricks several weeks ago about the resort!
  19. Ladies, I FINALLY got an email! whew! For anyone wondering...the name of the minister who performs their services is Francisco Flores. Remember, it's non-denominational AND the minister could change depending on availability. Here's an outline of what he'll say: Opening prayer Welcome 1st. Reading (Mark 10:6-9) Institution of marriage Reflexion on the scripture 2nd. Reading (1st. Corinthians 13:4-8a) Love Meditation on the reading Prayer for the rings (your hearts) Vows: Bride, Groom´s name: I give you this ring Wear it with love and joy I choose you to be my (wife, husband) From this day forward For better or for worst For richer or for poorer In sickness and in health To love and to cherish For as long as we both shall live Amen Presentation to the congregation as Mr. and Mrs. Signing of the certificate. You may write your own vows. You can add: Sand ceremony, poems, songs, other readings…etc. I will guide the timing for them, or as you prefer. It lasts approximately 20 to 25 minutes. ALSO, and this is a big also (at least for me), they will no longer be allowed to have bonfires on the beach. Landy says its part of the agreement the resort recently made with the gov't. Now, I need to think of something else for AFTER our big shindig!
  20. Wondering and also beginning to fume...has anyone heard from ANYONE in the wedding department. I kid you not, I've sent 4 emails all asking one simple question. What's the name of the minister who will be performing my ceremony?!?!?! ugh! If they do have 3 ladies in the wedding department than there is really no excuse for not getting back to us. I leave in 7 days. Tired of the waiting around!!!!
  21. Neen, $652 is mucho dinero!!! My FH and I had this discussion a couple of weeks ago. We didn't want to do the courthouse thing since it seemed too impersonal. (while we got our marriage license, we saw a line of peeps waiting to get married). So what we are doing is getting the JofP to come to our house. Actually, it's my sisters house and he will come, marry us and then we're going to have a special dinner. That's costing us $200...more than just doing it at the courthouse but less than the rent a rabbi! just something to consider! Amy, how much booze are we talking about here? We're renting a mini-van (sexy, I know!) and I can buy stuff for you if you'd like. I'm planning on getting TONS of food, drinks, trinkets at Costco. Oh, I called the resort over the weekend. Yup, they're open. So relieved!
  22. Nicole, this is a toughie. But one thing you should know is you are NOT being oversensitive. No way. So don't even beat yourself up over that. Something similar happened to us and as it turned out, my FH's brother (best man) is coming ALONE without the wife and 4 kids. AND, we paid for his airfare. Still, he complained the resort was too much! Gimme a break. One thing I've learned throughout this entire process is people will find $ to do the things they really want to do. And they will say they don't have $$ for the things they really don't care about. Example, my FH's brother I was telling you about. We told them in JANUARY about the wedding so they can start saving $$$. Well, they immediately told us they didn't have the money to go. The year goes by and guess who went on more vacations than my FH and I? Yup. The brother took the entire family for a long weekend beach trip for the Fourth. And in September took the entire family to disneyworld for a week! A whole week! Plus, add in a couple of long weekends here and there. And this is the guy who told us he didn't have the $$$ to bring his family to our wedding and the guy we had to pay airfare for! I know it's a tough call but if you want a DW then go for it. I say screw everyone else. My argument to those who aren't coming to our wedding is "hey, we gave you almost AN ENTIRE YEAR to save for it." If you couldn't do it in that time, well, you really didn't care to come! Have your DW wedding! No regrets.
  23. Quote: Originally Posted by neen I wrote our whole ceremony last month...took me about three hours. I'll post it if you want to see it. Landy told me to just send it a month in advance so the minister could read it over and ask any questions/suggest/request changes. Someone asked about the seaside grill reception - yes we are paying the $750 fee. Yes! That would be wonderful Neen! I'd like to incorporate a couple of mx traditions too but I just didn't know in what order everything is supposed to be. You can post on here or just send me a pm. Thanks,
  24. Joann, the resort puts everything together for you for no additional fee. You just need to give them your stuff. Speaking of ceremonies...does anyone have the text the minister uses for symbolic/religous ceremonies? I'm working on the ceremony program but not sure what the order is and what the minister will say. Also, has anyone gotten a response from ANY WC about details and such. I leave in less than two weeks and have several questions but they (as usual) don't answer.
  25. OMG this is your planning thread?!?!? And you gave me no heads up!??! Bad, bad girl!!! Sooo excited to see this and sooo amazed at how great it all looks! Congrats on all the hard work. fyi...we had a tequila tasting at our couples shower a few weeks ago and well needless to say we all got super drunk! And guess who was the first to pass out? Uh, me. The bride. What a loser. My suggestion is to break out with the tequila tasting way into the night. The bottles we got were really good and meant for sipping but it got so crazy everyone began doing shots! So I say don't even bother with the expensive stuff. You're gunna have a blast no matter the brand of tequila! Yeah, it's finally OUR turn!! woo! hoo!
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