Problem with bridesmaid
Posted 05 June 2008 - 12:34 AM
If you do have a talk with her, she sounds like the type that might not be reasonable and try to solve things amicably and save some level of friendship but I would hope so. Your a psychologist! Start with the 'when you did/said this, it made me feel this way' and she won't feel attacked and encourage her to do the same. If you've been friends for a long time and this is out of character for her, it could just be a snowball of mis-communicating (okay, and stress) that didn't get dealt with and can be resolved with some tears and a hug. Please keep us posted, we are with you on this one sister!
Posted 05 June 2008 - 10:28 AM
| Originally Posted by sgrimm1 |
Tell her to stick her med school books up her ass, and let her go!!!!!
And it's so true.
This is what I call a "toxic friendship." B* is totally out of line and undeserving of even being invited to your wedding! Cut her out! Grr. Everytime I read this thread it gets me mad! LOL
Posted 05 June 2008 - 01:17 PM
Posted 06 June 2008 - 04:01 PM
Posted 06 June 2008 - 06:03 PM
Who knows! I just don't want to act impulsively and I do not want to regret any decisions I make!
Thanks for all the comments and support!
Did you guys see the spin off thread about use of the "c" word......such drama I've started!!!
Posted 06 June 2008 - 11:10 PM
Posted 06 June 2008 - 11:51 PM
Posted 07 June 2008 - 12:00 AM
Oh and that see you next tuesday thread had me laughing...
Posted 07 June 2008 - 04:19 AM
| Originally Posted by Lagen |
And, today I learned that she is going through all kinds of medical problems. SHe's lost 2/3 of her hair and her thyroid has stopped functioning. So, I'm sure her stress level is high. While this does NOT excuse everything, I am human and want to take that into account. Our health plays a huge role on our emotions and ability to functioning. So, perhaps I should re-evaluate the situation and talk to her some more. ANd, perhaps she's freaking out about being a bit bald in the pictures?!?! Maybe she really doesn't feel comfortable being in the wedding with what's going on in her life?
Do yourself a favour and cut her off she is going to end up being a thorn in your side
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