I just have to say...

[-Kate-]

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Originally Posted by Nrvsbride I didn't think it was possible to find so many nice girls! I mentioned early on when I joined that in NYC wedding planning is cut throat! It is like a grown up version of Sweet 16. Bunch of spoiled, rich brats who bitch about the most trivial things. (Nothing wrong with being spoiled or rich btw, I just hate when people are bratty about it). One of my friends was mad she wasn't asked to be a BM so she wore a poofy white dress to sabotage the bride!! I mean it is just dispicable here. I'm glad I found a group of nice girls who are just as happy to share their happy day with other brides. -Glenda

If I were the bride I would have thrown red wine on her. Is that wrong?

[Nrvsbride]

Haha! At another wedding I went to the MOH was annoyed that the BM's dresses were kiwi green. No lie they were like neon green. But anyway the MOH was mad so she went into the bridal suit and had sex with her BF all over the bride's envelope gifts. I don't need to get anymore graphic but you guys can imagine what happened to her envelopes when he finished. Girls here are such biatches!

 

-Glenda

[weez]

I am a bit late to this one but I am with you guys! This is by far the friendliest, most fun and informative forum out there for DW's or others! All of you guys are so helpful and FUN!!

[cancun1007]

I have to admit that I have another forum that I have pretty much been at home with for 6 months- and they are great gals... I have led a couple over here that are DW brides because ... well let's be real- DW are different- off the beat and path of tradional weddings, but I will say that from the very beginning you gals have been great- thanks for all the help and now when I sit down at my computer I am torn between two screens.

 

AND I have to tell you that there are plenty of days that I am over there shaking my head and thanking the sandy beach gods that I am going to Mexico- it has saved so many headaches for me that I have seen other brides go thru.

 

God bless you that have walked the beaches before us... you have laid out a path and saved some of us so much time and reduced the struggle.. and for those still planning - keep your heads up and when you get to the beach-enjoy the sunshine!

[weez]

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Originally Posted by Nrvsbride Haha! At another wedding I went to the MOH was annoyed that the BM's dresses were kiwi green. No lie they were like neon green. But anyway the MOH was mad so she went into the bridal suit and had sex with her BF all over the bride's envelope gifts. I don't need to get anymore graphic but you guys can imagine what happened to her envelopes when he finished. Girls here are such biatches! -Glenda

OMG!!
Now THIS is a reality TV show!!

[anaderoux]

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha I can't beleive how someone could be such a bitch!!!

[jthrasher]

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Originally Posted by Nrvsbride Haha! At another wedding I went to the MOH was annoyed that the BM's dresses were kiwi green. No lie they were like neon green. But anyway the MOH was mad so she went into the bridal suit and had sex with her BF all over the bride's envelope gifts. I don't need to get anymore graphic but you guys can imagine what happened to her envelopes when he finished. Girls here are such biatches! -Glenda

lmao. It's good thing I wasn't photographing that wedding or there would have been LOTS of blackmail photos

[gkashmira]

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Originally Posted by Hummingbird ...that everyone is so nice here! That really makes it more fun. I have been on other wedding forums, (who shall remain unnamed, but we know who they are! ) and sometimes the girls can get downright nasty! Not that those other forums aren't helpful, it's just surprising to me how different this one seems. So, thanks everyone. Altogether now...

Really? What would they be mean about? That seems so weird! This is the only forum I'm on but it's weird to think of brides being mean instead of supporting each other! Well I'm glad you found us - we're happy to have you as a member!

[gkashmira]

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Originally Posted by AQHARIDER I honestly don't think I would be having a DW without this forum. I was just getting to the overwhelmed and frustrated point when I found this forum (well actually the old Cabo one!). I agree that I feel like I'm friends with so many of the girls on here. It's so fun to meet people from other places, share something in common and get to know more about eachother. I will admit that this forum has made me laugh (often), cry (I know, i'm a sap!) and has also challenged my long-held opinions about tradition and even other issues. I'm so happy to have all you girls...

I second all of this! i was about to give up when I found this forum. Planning my wedding has gone from torture to fun because of my "forum friends." Plus it helped me find a great location (hilton), a great wedding coordinator (maye) - neither of which I would have considered without this forum!

[Hummingbird]

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Originally Posted by gkashmira Really? What would they be mean about? That seems so weird!

Anything, really. Brides get flamed for asking the wrong questions, or for being "too young", or for not agreeing with one of the "regular" older members, etc. You name it. The worst part - and this is really why I quit using that particular site - is that if some of the members didn't like a particular poster, they would search for her all over the internet and post her personal information. That's pretty creepy! Things just got really weird over there. (And hence, one of the reasons I am paranoid about posting any pics of myself, or any personal info!)

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Originally Posted by gkashmira Well I'm glad you found us - we're happy to have you as a member!

Thank you!