Totally agree with you Joda, my FI and I also hate being the centre of attention, so a DW is perfect for us. Having like 50 people watching vs like 200, makes us much more comfortable.
Originally Posted by joda
We are not having an AHR. We chose a destInation wedding to save money and the stress of planning here, and we hate being the center of attention, so didn't want to be the focus of a large group. So basically having an AHR defeats the purpose of going away, for us. I don't think there is a right or wrong way to do it though, just whatever works for the couple!