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#1 Denise40

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    Posted 08 March 2008 - 01:00 PM

    This is all new to me. What is the purpose of these bags? Is it just a gift to your guests telling them thank you for coming?? Sorry if I sound stupid. I am just trying to figure out if I need to be doing something along those lines. There is just going to be a total of 6 of us for the renewal ceremony. They are my dh and myself, my 2 kids and their boyfriend/girlfriend. We are paying for everything for them(the whole trip). Any suggestions of some basic things I should take? They are all going to be in the ceremony also. Any help would be appreciated.

    #2 PaulaV

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      Posted 08 March 2008 - 03:10 PM

      Hi Denise,

      Maybe it's a little bit of 'thank you for coming' along with 'we were thinking of things to make your stay more comfortable'.

      I went to a wedding in a different state where they gave us a gift bag with chips, chocolates, gum, water bottles, snack stuff that was nice to have and a thank you note. We ate it all.

      With destination weddings, I have seen people include items that maybe people will need or maybe don't know they need until they get there, in addition to small gifts.

      There is actually a 'sticky' in this sub-forum that includes OOT pictures which could be helpful to decide what you would like the to be.

      #3 1elephant

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        Posted 08 March 2008 - 03:22 PM

        if you're paying for them, i don't think you really need oot bags...but that's just my opinion!

        #4 Denise40

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          Posted 08 March 2008 - 06:34 PM

          Thanks for the info! Yes, we are paying everything, the airfare, hotel, food etc. Then again it's my kids and their SO. I may still get some things that would be helpful. I will look through the links. I will also get them each a little thank you gift for being a part of our ceremony.

          #5 Saraha

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            Posted 08 March 2008 - 06:39 PM

            Yeah they are pretty much to Welcome your guests and to tell them thanks for traveling to your wedding. Alot of times they will add a welcome letter, maps, list of activities. It can be easier than telling a bigger group of people absoutley everything there is to do and where it is.

            #6 BarefootBride

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              Posted 09 March 2008 - 08:03 AM

              You shouldnt worry about doing them. Those are just welcome bags... to thank them for coming so far... I think your guest could afford to pack well. You might want to take along a first aid kit for everyone just in case.

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