Melissa727- I'm sorry to hear of your mom 'situation'. That can be really frustrating. I don't know if this is much help, but we are getting married there Nov. 15 and I have asked similar questions. I heard that the spa does a great job for hair and makeup, just take a picture for an exampe of what you would like your hair to look like. I heard that even if you don't like it, they'll do it over, no problem! I emailed the spa to set my appointments and had no problems. I have a different WC, but I've heard they all do a great job. I also posed the question about the OOT bag items, and the responses I received were that it wasn't an issue, because they really only check bags when re-entering the US, but to maybe take receipts along to prove your purchases and maybe don't put all OOT stuff in same bag, then they won't think you're going to re-sell it there! As far as restaurants go, I heard some of them you need to get there early because the food is so good! Maybe your coordinator can pull some strings for you?! Last thought...just remember that this is your day and no one has the right to take that away from you! So, I would try my best to seperate myself from all negativity. Unfortunately, I know first hand what you are talking about and that's why my Mother-In-Law is not coming! Good Luck to you and best wishes