Quote: Originally Posted by mswhatever
 Here is the ceremony order Nina sent me. I would place it before the kiss.    Where you have the cake is your choice. They will do it however you would like. I had mine at the reception because my wedding was at 4pm. There was only 1 hour between the two events. Pictures ate up that hour quick! Now if my wedding was earlier in the day with a longer break between the two events, I would have had the cake at the ceremony site with a cocktail hour.  Ms Whatever.. My wedding is also at 4. I was thinking of including a cocktail hour because many previous brides said they waited around 3 hours to eat. So, my thought was everyone would probably eat breakfast; guests may eat lunch. But most people (including bride) would be starving by 7 or 8 pm. How did that plan out for your wedding? If you had to redo, would you have included a cocktail hour? Thanks again for all your help!