Hi everyone! We are having an AHR about 2 months after the wedding for everyone who can't make it out to Jamaica. It's going to be semi informal, a bbq at a local beach/state park. My son really wants to be apart of the wedding so we would like to do a ceremony specifically dedicated to him. Has anyone ever done this or seen it done?? Help! I am thinking of doing a candle ceremony, vows dedicated to our "new family". We will dress in white. I am even thinking of going semi formal in attire... what are your thoughts? I need as much help as I can get. Should we decorate? Send out invites? Sand ceremony, candle ceremony? I am looking for suggestions and ideas. Thank you!