I'm having an issue- and would like all of your opinions. I originally didn't want bridesmaid but because my FI has a million friends and wanted groomsmen I ended up choosing 3 bridesmaids. 1 - MOH is a friend of mine, 2 - my cousin's wife who has been there for me throughout out many trials and tribulations, 3 - my niece (she is my 1/2 sisters daughter and I'm not that close to them- besides the occasional call). I thought this combo would be great and everyone gladly accepted. Earlier this year my cousin lost his job so they are not sure if they will be in attendance for the wedding - I completely understand this situation and I'm fine with it. My sister is complaining about the price of everything (but she is the one that was inviting her boyfriend, his 3 kids her other 1/2 sister and the sisters family) - and I haven't spoken to them again so I guess I'm counting my niece out also. Now the MOH - she went with me to originally try on my wedding dress - and also tried on the dress I liked. This didn't initially bother me...but a few weeks later she send me a picture of a watch that looks exactly like the one FI gave me last Christmas. So I said where did you get a pic of my watch she responds that her husband just bought it for her. Now I'm a bit furious and decide to take some time off from her. I got my dress with another family member I have still been getting things done. She sent me messages that her and her husband are trying to figure out what to do about booking because he doesn't know if he is coming...OK. A few weeks ago I spoke to her about her dress- and decided to tell her we can look for her dress once she books her hotel - doesn't make sense to waste time and money if she doesn't book. Now.....she just told me that she is prego...and want to change the dress because what I choose may not work..... What do y'all think? Some family member are telling me to get someone else to walk with me.