For the old I"m wearing one of my Mom rings on my right hand. I love that suit....I think FI should probably get one for the summer it is awesome. I think it was Kathy who mentioned it but I got the candles at Bath and body @ 3 for $5 and I got the little lotions for $1. I think I'm going to pick up the petal soaps that I showed you guys before from the dollar store and get the wine stoppers ---we went to bed bath and beyond for them today (cause I don't want to pay for shipping) and they sold out this morning, so I'm going to try another location. I got my the below cake topper And this is what I want for our sand ceremony, I may have to buy online because the store was sold out