Hi, Im not getting married in Aruba, but I'm not doing any of the extra stuff either I have to keep costs down. So just becareful of all the add ons that the resorts push. Look for a resort that has other activities included that your guest can take a part of. On bride on here, didn't do the reception but her wedding was on a night that the resort had a fire-show and party so it was great for them. There are several options...just take your time and breath...everything will work out just fine. And you still have plenty of time to decide.