I'm sooo sorry your family and guests are giving you a hard time. I just recently booked my wedding for June 2011 and everyone seemed to be on-board and now I know exactly how you feel. Just about every weekend I hear comments from family about what they recently just heard or watched on the news. At first it was really bothersome, I literally had to pull out a map of the entire country and highlight the areas of violence and then show them how far the Cancun/Maya was from that area. I remember every story they heard was way exaggerated, they were extremely misinformed and pressuring me into thinking I made a poor decision for my wedding location. Now when I see my phone ringing from family or see an e-mail i think to myself "Oh what violent disaster has happened in Mexico now?" bracing myself for everyone's crazy comments. Now when I hear comments, I just laugh. I can't let it get to me, and neither should you. I know that they want you to fold and move your wedding but you should remember why you chose a DW and remember it's your wedding, not theirs. I truly believe no matter how much slack they give you, in the end your family will come around and be there for you!!!!!!