Darcat, from what I recall you can change out the colors, the sit down would be an up charge and you can change the flowers but depending on what you want it could also be an up charge. I think most of us found that if we did a custom package, it is cheaper but make sure you do your homework and compare. I really wanted the chill out chic but for the price difference, I decided to just go with the tall tables.
OOT is out of town bags that you give to all of your guests when they arrive.
Lily, those cards are so cute!
Angie