Quote: Originally Posted by Dez921714 For the record...I work 2 jobs, do the laundry, mow the lawn, do the dishes, cook most nights, vacuum, take care of the dogs.
He works as a mechanic...comes home and naps...He has a "physical" job
But I'm the one who isn't doing enough. I think I've had enough!
I'm going to look into a therapist for myself. I need to take care of myself and my dogs. He's a big boy, he'll figure things out for himself, even if it's too late when he does. Dez,
I didn't read any of the responses after this, but I wanted to tell you that I think going to see someone yourself would really be worth while! I have dealt with some similar things in my relationship, but the difference is that my FI was more than willing to make changes so that we could be happy together- this included therapy. He went by himself and we went together. I have gone a few times by myself and found it really helpful, not only for my relationship, but in all aspects of my life. You have to put yourself first and take care of you... the rest will fall into place where it should. I know its so much easier to give advice when you are not in the situation yourself, but that's my 2 cents. I hope that things work out and whatever happens you are HAPPY! Who knows, maybe if you go and your FI sees it he will be willing to go with you.
Kelly