Quote: Originally Posted by starfish kate We have actually said we would pay, but I think it's more of my parents wanting us to all have the same amount of attention. A particularly wants to have her own time- she is a twin (I have a brother, too) and she says that she has had to share everything her whole life and she wants her wedding to be "her time." She even insisted on being my other sister's maid of honor.... She makes things about her.
She's not a bad person, but her reaction would be "too bad", not "oh, Kate, we'll work it out." Oh, sorry to hear that. I was going to suggest maybe having a double wedding if you guys were really close. But if she wants to have her own time, then that defitenly would not work!
When is her fiancee supposed to propose? Maybe yours could "officially" propose sooner than hers? lol