to the forum Toni!
There are quite a few girls on the form that planned or is planning their wedding in the 'non-convential' way. So don't be down on yourself about that, bc there's nothing wrong with doing things a little different. Hey, even having a DW is considered 'non-convential' to most people. lol
I'm not sure what your budget is, but something you might consider, transferring your guests back and forth a few times may add up.
If you really like the Riu chain, I think there is a new one opening up in MoBay in the late summer of 2008. Anyhow, we have plenty of Jamaica brides (mostly Riu Ocho Rios) on the forum, I'm sure they will be willing to chime in.
FYI: You will be addicted to this forum! (dont say I didnt warn you,lol) You'll love it here!
Congrats & Happy Planning