Also, I forgot to mention in my last post, our old roommate and his FI are planning a DW (only to DE, but still, it's a DW), for like 3 weeks after ours. We will be able to make it to theirs since spedning a weekend in DE isn't as expensive as going to Jamaica, but we have been very clear with him that we more then undersntad if they can't come to Jamaica. I mean, ours was being planned like 10 months before they made their plan, but still, I don't expect them to plan around me and I totally understood that their wedding should coem before ours in their lives. If that makes sense. We wnat them to come of course, but 3 weeks before their wedding? Who would have time or $ for that?