Originally Posted by maridr2012
I agree with the others. He'll regret not going but in the meantime, I suggest make an itemized list of the budget to have a wedding at home in ur area, and include EVERYTHING u can think of. Then do the same for ur DW. present him with both budgets and tell him unleashes willing to pay for the size able difference just to have a wedding at home, then ur going with the DW. I think he will have change of heart very quickly!
oh goodness i woudlnt do that if i were her. shes said its not only cheaper, its their dream to have the DW. thats going to seriously backfire if he then says "ok ill pay the difference. so you'll have it in your hometown now right?". then theyd have to say that they were bluffing haha