I just joined this forum. My fiance and I were looking a wedding date in Las Vegas on 08.08.08. We are having to move up the wedding date in a big way. I am Canadian, he is American. We have been living apart for just over two years now. I decided enough is enough, one of us has to make the plung and move to the others Country. I thought I could just leave here go move to Utah to be with him until our wedding date. (08.08.0
I am told I can not just go and live with him, frustrating to say the least. I would have no status there in America, couldn't show up at the border with my Uhal of effects and drive into the US. I wouldn't be able to get a bank acct, my son wouldn't be able to attend school, most importantly we wouldn't have medical/dental. So long story short, we are planning on getting married in Dec 07/Jan 08 to make this alot easier. Crazy stuff, to marry someone you have never lived with. I know that is what they did in the good old days but you don't see that to offen these days. It will be just a small wedding him, myself, my son and the three Chihuahuas if they will behave. No honeymoon, no friends just us at the Valley of the Fire outdoors wedding. I love the pictures they are wonderful. Looking forward to starting this new chapter in my life that will bring joy, challenges and new adventures.