my dad just died....
Posted 20 September 2007 - 11:22 AM
Posted 20 September 2007 - 11:48 AM
Anyway, what I really want to say to you is that you will feel your own kind of closure by doing what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do right now. Once I got through all of the crazy emotion of "why is this happening right now?" - and I calmed down, I decided the best course of action to take was to handle things in a way that I would be able to look back on & feel no regret what so ever.
For me, it entailed paying for his cremation & releasing his ashes to people in his life that cared about him. It entailed dealing with his "estate" (which was a joke). It entailed paying the creditors that were after him, and then after me. Right, wrong or indifferent in others eyes, I did what I needed to do to feel at peace in a shitty situation. And now, 5 years later, I can say I am proud of myself in the way I handled it. I know you can do the same.
Hugs & love Heidi. Be good to yourself
Posted 20 September 2007 - 12:12 PM
Posted 20 September 2007 - 12:15 PM
Posted 20 September 2007 - 12:21 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It's difficult to lose a parent, regardless of the situation, so take the time to feel and express whatever emotions you need to in order to help your heart. Take care of yourself and your baby.
Posted 20 September 2007 - 12:56 PM
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