that's my dilemma, do i politely ask the guests not to dress too grungy. I mean i get its a backyard BBQ party, where normally it would be okay to come in shorts and t-shirts. But i am hoping since it is also for a post-wedding reception, people will try to dress nicely. i will be wearing a white dress - not my big fancy wedding dress, but the dress i wore for my TTD pics - which is still super fancy for a BBQ. I know some of my BMs will be wearing their BM dresses again (or for the first time since two of them couldnt make it to Jamaica).
So i am wondering - should I put something on my website about what to wear for this BBQ, or just let it go and hope for the best that people put some effort!
and if i do put something on my website - how do i word it?? what did you do??
any suggestions are appreciated, thanks!