While I dont think its so bad that she booked her wedding on a weekend you are unavailable for (when you have family members and wedding party to worry about, its inevitable that any given weekend isn't going to work for someone or another), I do see why you're upset with her reason for not going with date number two! I would hope that your wedding already being on that date would be her top reason not to choose it, and am really really hoping the words just came out of her mouth wrong. Either way, you two have been friends a long time and its going to start eating at you if you dont get it off your chest and talk to her about that comment... so I really think you need to talk to her about it. Best case, the words came out of her mouth wrong and she'll have the chance to clear things up with you -- worst case, you'll be able to get your feelings off your chest. Either way, you'll feel better after you talk to her. Thats just my two cents though!
Originally Posted by BeachBridein11
So I sucked it up and went to the planned celebration. Honestly, I was feeling better with the whole situation, just had the hurt feeling 'cause I knew I was going to be missing my friend's wedding. Well she confirmed that she booked July 30th for her wedding, at the same time confirming that it was the only place she looked at/called on. Okay, okay so it was happening, I was fine with it.
She went on to say that the only other day available was June 17th (my wedding date!). She pointed out that it was my date, BUT right after she said, "We were going to go with the 17th, but my cousin is getting married the following weekend and we didn't want our families to have to go to 2 weddings in a row." Are you friggin kidding me?! That was her reason?! The fact that it was my wedding date didn't deter you away from the date!!!!! OMG I am so livid!!!!!! It has definitely put me in my place on where I am in her eyes!!! Yup, she seriously downgraded!!
UUUUUUGH!! BTW, she still hasn't told me that she isn't coming to my wedding.... just heard it through people.