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So I'm not from Alberta, I'm from Manitoba but all I did was contact Vital Statistics for my province and they emailed me an election of surname form.  It says on that form that after marriage you have the following options in choosing your surname:

1) You may retain your present surname;

2) You may assume your spouse's or partner's name;

3) You may choose to combine your present surname with your spouse's or partner's surname, with or without a hyphen (in any order); or,

4) You may choose to assume your spouse's or partner's surname, and retain your present surname as a given middle name

 

I assume these options would be very similar for Alberta.  Maybe give vital stats a call and they can send you their form.  It only took me like five minutes to get through and have the form emailed to me.

 

Hope that helps!

 

Originally Posted by Avens View Post

Hey Ladies,

 

I know a couple of you are from Alberta - and I'm wondering if you are changing your name - what what steps you have to start with to do it?

 

In general - are any of you changing your name?  Initially I wasn't, and hubby was cool.  Now that we're "officially" married, I get the feeling he really wants me to.  I like his last name, and it wasn't ever out of the question, moreso for convenience that I wouldn't change it, and I really like my name.  It reflects my heritage, and I just like it. :)

 

For professional purposes, I would like to stay Jaimee "Smith", but legally be Jaimee "Jones".  Has anyone ever thought of making their maiden name a middle name? 

 

So my new name would be Jaimee Anne Smith Jones. For all intents and purposes I would be Jaimee Jones legally, but then Smith is still a part of my name.  (PS. I made up middle and last names)

 

What are your thoughts January ladies? What are you doing?



 

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I'm pretty sure we don't have anything like Vital Statistics here in Alberta.

 

Originally Posted by ashley490 View Post

So I'm not from Alberta, I'm from Manitoba but all I did was contact Vital Statistics for my province and they emailed me an election of surname form.  It says on that form that after marriage you have the following options in choosing your surname:

1) You may retain your present surname;

2) You may assume your spouse's or partner's name;

3) You may choose to combine your present surname with your spouse's or partner's surname, with or without a hyphen (in any order); or,

4) You may choose to assume your spouse's or partner's surname, and retain your present surname as a given middle name

 

I assume these options would be very similar for Alberta.  Maybe give vital stats a call and they can send you their form.  It only took me like five minutes to get through and have the form emailed to me.

 

Hope that helps!

 



 



 

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Actually there is a Vital Statistics in Alberta.  I emailed them this morning :)

 

Now we have been residents of Alberta since October, but we were legally married in Manitoba.  I wonder if that affects things.  I'll see what they say!

 

Thanks Ashley!
 

Originally Posted by JayKay View Post

I'm pretty sure we don't have anything like Vital Statistics here in Alberta.

 



 



 

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There is?!  How come I didn't know about this.  If you find any info can you let me know!

 

Originally Posted by Avens View Post

Actually there is a Vital Statistics in Alberta.  I emailed them this morning :)

 

Now we have been residents of Alberta since October, but we were legally married in Manitoba.  I wonder if that affects things.  I'll see what they say!

 

Thanks Ashley!
 



 



 

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Hey Alberta Ladies!  Here you go! My original email is below - which is why it says "Manitoba" marriage certificate.  I'm sure you just bring your Alberta one.  
 
vs@gov.ab.ca
9:08 AM (9 hours ago)
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Thank you for your inquiry. To assume the last name of your spouse, you will need
to order a government-issued marriage certificate. 

Information on Vital Statistic offices in other
provinces in Canada is available on our website at: 
www.servicealberta.ca/765.cfm By assuming your spouseâ€s last name, you are not
officially changing your maiden last name.  Your birth
registration will still show your maiden surname. 

If you have an Alberta driver's licence or identification
card you can add your husband's surname with or
without a hyphen.

You can apply for a change of name by appearing
in person at a registry office.  To process the change,
you will need to surrender your current driver's
licence and provide an additional piece of acceptable
identification as well as the Manitoba marriage
certificate.

The registry agent will issue you with a temporary
driver's licence which cannot be used as identification.

The new driver's licence with your updated information
should come to you in the mail in about 5 to 10 business
days. There is a fee for having your driver's licence
information updated. 

Service Providers
Service Alberta, Registries no longer provides direct
customer service for motor vehicle services. The provincial
government privatized this process and a network of private
Registry Agents was established as authorized service
providers.  Registry Agents are authorized to charge a
service fee.  The list of Registry Agents is available on our website
at:
www.servicealberta.ca/617.cfm If you have any further questions please contact:
Ministry of Service Alberta
Vital Statistics
Box 2023
Edmonton AB T5J 4W7
Phone:  780-427-7013
For toll-free access within Alberta first dial 310-0000
Email:  vs@gov.ab.ca Visit our website at www.servicealberta.ca for comprehensive
registries and consumer information and services
  ----- Original Message -----
From: Jaimee D <>
To: <vs@gov.ab.ca>
Sent: Thu, 2 Feb 2012 11:28:38 -0700
Subject: Marriage Name Change Question [interactionID:6e9b89af-08f6-47f1-9f44-4fbe3e290fdb]
 

Hello,

Thank you for your time! I just had a quick question about marriage name change. 

We were married (legally) in Manitoba on January 12, 2011.  However it was a secret, as our "wedding" was January 12, 2012 in Mexico.  In October 2011 we moved to Alberta, so we are now residents here.

I am interested in assuming my husbands name, but also keeping mine.  I am wondering if this is an option.  I don't want to hyphenate it just add his name on to the end.

Jaimee Middlename Maiden Husbandname

Is that an option, or do I have to hyphenate it?  The fact that we were married in Manitoba, does that affect this at all?

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Hi ladies!

We got back on Friday and had the time of our lives. Everything went so smoothly it was such a perfect day!

Here's a link to my photobucket page with most of our professional pics (there's about 150 of them so its fairly long): http://s1107.photobucket.com/albums/h398/katherinecolin2012/Wedding%20Day/?albumview=slideshow

 

Congrats to all the new wifeys on here!

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Your pictures are great!  Congrats!

 

Originally Posted by mllek1986 View Post

Hi ladies!

We got back on Friday and had the time of our lives. Everything went so smoothly it was such a perfect day!

Here's a link to my photobucket page with most of our professional pics (there's about 150 of them so its fairly long): http://s1107.photobucket.com/albums/h398/katherinecolin2012/Wedding%20Day/?albumview=slideshow

 

Congrats to all the new wifeys on here!



 

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Anyone else experiencing the post wedding hangover yet???  I'm trying to figure out what to do with all this "spare" time I have now that I'm not planning or looking at wedding blogs or this website.  I think I'm going to have to rediscover my hobbies or find a new one. 

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I can completely relate. I still go on here for some "fun"....lol. I need to start posting some items for sale. I still catch myself seeing lots of Oot bag items when out shopping.
 

Originally Posted by muzikgrrl View Post

Anyone else experiencing the post wedding hangover yet???  I'm trying to figure out what to do with all this "spare" time I have now that I'm not planning or looking at wedding blogs or this website.  I think I'm going to have to rediscover my hobbies or find a new one. 



 

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I hear ya, ladies! Who knew that wedding planning was so all-consuming! I have started training for a half-marathon in May. It has been good to have some other goal in mind and something to look forward to - or maybe I am just crazy! This run could be the death of me... lol!

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