Invites to those who can't come?
Posted 23 July 2010 - 04:52 PM
Posted 23 July 2010 - 05:22 PM
Then again, those added invitations are extra cost, so if you can afford it, I would say send it anyway. However, if it'd be better for you to save the expense then I don't see an issue with you not sending them an invite if they already respectfully declined.
Whatever you decide, I'm sure it'll be fine. =]
Posted 25 July 2010 - 08:33 AM
I did anyway. Besides, my invites had a little blurb about the reception at home, and information about our website.
AND, I put a lot of blood, sweat and tears into those invitations! If those people were on the guest list, coming or not, they were going to receive that invitation!! LOL
25 March 2011
Bride & Groom and kids + 20 booked.
Posted 25 July 2010 - 09:12 AM
Posted 26 July 2010 - 12:14 AM
Posted 27 July 2010 - 01:52 AM
Posted 27 July 2010 - 02:06 AM
| Originally Posted by Meitra |
Thanks for all the feedback everyone I have decided that I will go ahead and sends invitations to everyone I sent a STD to, even if they can't come.
Send invites to EVERYONE, despite whether or not they've already indicated they may not attend -- it's just the courteous thing to do and then NO one can ever say in the future that you didn't try to include them in your celebration!
(The cost for the invitations and the stamps, which I know are both expensive, are NOTHING compared to the craziness you might have to endure for relatives and friends NOT having received them, I assure you!)
Posted 27 July 2010 - 08:38 AM
Posted 28 July 2010 - 09:55 AM
i just mailed my invitations yesterday and included those who i already know they can't go.. like a few who posted already, people keep it as a keepsake and then yes, they can't ever say you didn't invite them! I put alot of work into mine and wanted to share that with everyone too...
Posted 30 July 2010 - 07:43 AM
We are sending invites to everyone. We are only inviting 100, and KNOW only about 40 will come, but still...it's a courtesy. The invites were expensive and orignally we thought it would be better to send some people the "fancy" ones and some just plain (Vista Print) ones...but we changed our minds. Didn't want people to see that other people got other invites, etc...3
I think people will appreciate the gesture of sending the invite...who knows, their situations could change too!
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