I Really Need MIL Advice Please!
Posted 23 June 2010 - 08:21 AM
Posted 23 June 2010 - 11:48 AM
I donâ€™t want them there at this point. They have made their choice and choose to not be part of our lives. I was hurt and angry, but now see it for what it is. If they were to book now because of guilt I think they would make it miserable for us. I would regret the results of doing it. The last thing I want is to have someone be a part of our day that doesnâ€™t want to be there. My father is going to be there and is really looking forward to it and I am happy with that. You are the only person I need to be there! I want this to be the best day of our lives!
I guess we move forward. If he is ok with it then I am also. I just want him to be happy.
Posted 23 June 2010 - 11:51 AM
I'm glad that he (you too) is at peace with it!
Posted 23 June 2010 - 09:37 PM
Posted 24 June 2010 - 01:47 PM
Posted 24 June 2010 - 01:54 PM
Posted 30 June 2010 - 11:35 AM
My advice would be to not fuel the fire with a letter. Good luck with everything and keep us posted. Your wedding is going to be beautiful and amazing!!
Posted 30 June 2010 - 11:59 AM
You will have a beautiful wedding and hopefully she will come around and realize what she will miss by being this obstinate and change her mind. If not, don't let it ruin your day. No wedding is perfect and you can't control everything. Just keep your spirits up, be positive and trust that everything will be all that you and your FI hoped it would.
Posted 02 July 2010 - 05:59 AM
I do this a lot of the time (slightly strange I know!!) when I'm angry or upset I write a letter to that person or an email - but then bin it or delete it! I find it helps you vent your anger and then you can sit back read through it and realise maybe you slightly over-reacted - which always seems to be the case with my letters!
In your case, you have every right to be upset and angry it's your wedding! But you sound like you've made the right choice to talk with your FI and he seems so level headed about it all even though it must hurt like hell! Sounds like your a lucky girl!
Good luck - hope all goes well in the end!
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