Long lost cousin invites me to her wedding?
Posted 05 February 2010 - 05:55 PM
In comes Facebook. She finds me, asks how I am--- you know the drill. We both find out that weâ€™re getting married in 2010, me in July, her in October. Weâ€™ve only exchanged a couple of emails, and she lives in Florida now, and I in CA.
I got an email from her asking for my addressâ€¦ dun dun dunâ€¦. Is she going to invite me to her wedding And if she does, do I have to invite her to mine?? Donâ€™t get me wrong, I would love to, but I have no more save the date materials, and ours contained shotglasses, tequila and a card. Weâ€™re not doing invitesâ€¦. Also, her wedding is going to be a big extravagant (black tie) event back in our hometown, with 300+ people. Only about 35-40 are making it to Mexico, only 2 of them are my familyâ€¦. I feel bad for thinking like this, but it would be weird if I invited her and she actually came. We obviously arenâ€™t close. AND another cousin of mine, who is very close with her, also found me on facebook after her. Do I have to invite her too? When does it stop? I know Iâ€™m probably being overdramatic here, but I need advice on what, if anything, I should say to her.
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Posted 17 February 2010 - 10:27 AM
I'm in a situation like Melidell where if you invite one family member, you have to invite them all or there will be drama. Luckily, I know for a fact that none of my extended family will be able to travel for my wedding, so I am inviting them out of courtesy so as to not hurt feelings.
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