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Only married 7 weeks and heading for divorce :(

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#71 **Kat**

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    Posted 26 January 2010 - 09:33 PM

    I am SO SO sorry! I hope that he comes clean about everything and starts be honest and faithful. I have been here. *hugs*

    #72 poohshek

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      Posted 26 January 2010 - 11:29 PM

      Have been thinking about you since I read your post Sunday night. Can't really offer much advice here. Hang in there...

      #73 shellk

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        Posted 27 January 2010 - 04:07 AM

        a little worrying that you havent been on in a few days.let us know how you are doing

        #74 **Kat**

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          Posted 27 January 2010 - 12:33 PM

          I hope you are alright as well, and that you are getting the answers you need!


          #75 itsfinallyhere

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            Posted 27 January 2010 - 12:38 PM

            Just checking in to see how you are doing?

            #76 BachataBride

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              Posted 27 January 2010 - 12:38 PM

              Originally Posted by roo66
              If women didnt stoop to such low levels men wouldnt have the opportunity.
              I'm sorry - but I have to completely 100% disagree with this! The "other woman" has no commitment/obligation to you. I don't care if a naked woman comes & throws herself at my husband, it is HIS responsibility to say NO. He is the one who committed himself to you forever, not her. Granted, she should know better, but she is not the issue - he is.

              I'm so sorry you are going through all this Leslie, especially since it could have been nipped in the bud months ago - but i hope you two can work through this. Whatever you decide, make sure he does things on YOUR terms, not his - always remember that he is in the wrong...and if this is nothing like he says it is, then he should be jumping through hoops to make things right with you.

              I wish you strength to get through this situation. And as always, we are here if you need us.

              #77 islandbride317

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                Posted 28 January 2010 - 03:57 AM

                Oh, Leslie....this is BEYOND terrible. I usually feel like I can always come up with at least something of worth to say, but your situation truly has me baffled, and I feel as lost for words as I can only imaging you feel lost in your relationship right now.

                My heart breaks for you.

                I join the rest of your sisters here on BDW when I say that only YOU can decide what path to take now, in the wake of his careless, irresponsible behavior. Safe to say, he's got on hell of a lot of growing up to do, and it's up to you to decide if enough is enough, or if you want to see if your marriage can be repaired after his selfish betrayal of your trust.

                As always, we are, and will continue to be, here for you.

                You've got more friends than you'll know what to do with just on the other side of your computer screen, sweetheart!

                Sending you much love, lots of hugs, and you'll be in my prayers.

                #78 roo66

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                  Posted 28 January 2010 - 04:31 AM

                  Firstly i want to send positive vibes for a good outcome.Now let me explain.
                  Men will if they are weak cheat.BUT if women had more repsect for other women instead of just taking no responsibility men couldnt cheat.
                  Why do women think its ok knowing the damage they are going to cause to another woman

                  #79 bnbrmy

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                    Posted 28 January 2010 - 07:55 AM

                    Hey I can't stop thinking about you. Having been in your shoes, I know you're hurting. I just want to make sure you're okay. I'm sure you are turned upside down in confusion, I just wanted to say I'm thinking about you and hope you have found some sort of peace within yourself. Much love sent out your way. Please update us and let everyone know how you are doing.

                    Hugs <3

                    #80 **Kat**

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                      Posted 28 January 2010 - 12:08 PM

                      I am NOT laying all of the blame on this woman, because it takes 2 to tango.. BUT I have to say.. I really hate women like this. The ones that know men are taken and still do this crap! Drives me crazy!

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