Feeling Blue - Way too close for this!
Posted 21 January 2010 - 02:22 PM
Just praying and asking God for direction. He is a good man and our relationship is not perfect but pretty good. We laugh, hang out, have fun and lenjoy each other but trust us becoming a concern.
Posted 21 January 2010 - 02:26 PM
At Home Reception: May 7, 2011
25 guests + bride + groom booked
My Wedding Planning Notes
Posted 21 January 2010 - 02:31 PM
Do what makes you happy and what will make you happy, a marriage is something special filled with love, commitment and most of all trust. I wish you the best and hope you can resolve your concerns.
Posted 21 January 2010 - 02:45 PM
I hope you are able to sort it out --- remember to do what makes YOU happy. I agree, make a list. But whatever happens, I wish you the best.
Posted 21 January 2010 - 03:08 PM
My FI just got in a big argument last night, about our DW (budget, guests etc). We are perfectly fine -- but it shows that wedding planning is a stressful thing, that can fog our judgement.
Posted 21 January 2010 - 03:38 PM
Posted 21 January 2010 - 04:13 PM
I will make the list tonight! Or even right now. Let you know how it goes. Thanks again everyone...
Posted 21 January 2010 - 05:04 PM
Listen, one thing i've learned out of my relationship is that communication is key and that's what's going to keep your relationship is strong. It's not easy, but if there are trust issues or any other issues floating around, you need to be open and honest about it and talk to him, and he needs to talk to you. Even though we are in relationships, sometimes we disconnect from our partner, usually due to stress and misscommunication.... we all once in a while need to step back and reconnect with our partner. and the suggestions about the pros and cons list is a fantastic suggestion, it's a very concrete way of weighing out your options and concerns.
Good luck and we are all here for you!
Posted 22 January 2010 - 11:40 AM
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