| Originally Posted by michelle2011 |
I say they are a definate thumbs up Nicy. I really like them. Really unusal and lovely!
I've had a wobbly day today girls. On an all time low! Not only is my dad not coming to the wedding but now our best man has dropped out. His wife is having a baby and it will only be 6/7months old when we go. (she wont let him come for a week on his own). FI is gutted to say the least. Shed a tear today over all the upset the wedding seems to be causing and wondering if a desination wedding is really worth it! Everyone seems out to ruin it for us
(.......(sorry for being a winge bag)!
| Originally Posted by josietoms |
Michelle - i feel for you cause this is exactly the same situation we were in with FI sis and her partner. She is pregnant and our BM; the s**t hit the fan when it was first announced - i got upset and angry - a variety of emotions, but once time has passed and you are 'used' to the fact they are not coming it will get better. The problem is i think we are all a little 'bridezilla' at times we tend to forget other peoples lives are continuing on around us while we spend every spare moment thinking of our lovely time in the sun and our wedding - when we booked our wedding we only expected my parents and my FI mum and her partner to come, we thought everyone else would say no straight away, (inc FI dad) we now have 16 travelling with us and we are over the moon. But by booking a DW i think we have to accept 'drops out', 'cancellations' and upset over people who cant come; especially due to the location of the wedding. As long as me and my FI are there that is all that matters; it our dream day and will be no matter who comes. Chin up and remember 'nothing will spoil your day' :-)
| Originally Posted by SouthernSweetie |
Nicyx: LOVE these shoes! Any purchasing info available
Michelle: I know how disappointed you must be, but when it's all over and the pictures are circulating, they'll all be sorry. My FI and I made a pact when we decided to have a DW that the only thing that mattered was that we were there, in a beautiful setting, to become one. If anyone else chose to show up, we would consider it a bonus. Keep your head up!
Awww, Thanks girls.... Absolutly sure now these are what i want :-)
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Awwww, Michelle.... How are you today?
Hope your feeling a bit better about everything?
I do know how your feeling lovely our circumstances are slightly different but but i really do understand. My FI's parents arent coming, and my sister isnt coming, i do have wee cry's now and again about this.... Also i was secretly hoping my sister maybe able to afford to come and last minute say she was actually coming and dont get me wrong her being pregnant again is the best thing but now i know she definatly wont be coming at all so i wont have my sis (she would have been my moh) there. :-( now i just have to secretly hope FI's parents change their mind?!?!?
but sometimes i do wonder if its all worth it... but then i tell myself...
We are doing this for us and we cant please all the people all the time (unfortunatly) and I know, no matter what as much as i will miss and probably shed a wee tear on the morning of the wedding for people who werent able to make it.... It WILL be the best day of OUR lives... EVER :-)
I know its hard Michelle but I think you would regret it more in years to come if you dont go through with your dream wedding.....
And Michelle... dont be sorry, were all allowed a winge once in a while and if you need to vent some more were hear to listen :-)
Glad some of you ladies are getting some early booking discount :-) Every little helps... I dont think we get an early booking discount in the UK.. This I will have to ask about :-)