No bridesmaid or groomsmen by choice
Posted 09 December 2009 - 01:35 PM
I think people stress WAY too much about this. It is supposed to be a happy thing. If you want your closest friends with you to celebrate and be a big part of your day then ask them - they will be ecstatic. If you want to not have any then dont have any, but dont stress out about it.
We each are having 7 and we paid for their attire to be in the wedding since they have enough expenses on their plate with coming to the wedding, but i know alot of girls who still are more than happy to pay for their attire AND their trip. If soemone has a problem then they will decline being in your wedding party.
Posted 11 December 2009 - 10:16 AM
Posted 11 December 2009 - 08:22 PM
I wanted them up there with me for support...I'm not the type to like all attention on me, so I thought that would help with my anxiety and make them feel a part of everything! Is it weird if they are not all wearing the same thing? I was thinking about telling them to find something in the color scheme that they love and feel like looks great on them...something that they know they would wear again, and it doesn't have to be formal, a sundress would be fine. But then my fiances mom made a comment about the small details making a difference, so now I'm not sure what I'm going to do
I'm beginning to wish I would have just kept it the two of us...
Posted 13 December 2009 - 10:22 PM
I want the day to be about me and FH
Posted 04 January 2010 - 12:36 AM
Posted 04 January 2010 - 04:46 AM
Posted 05 January 2010 - 09:44 PM
Posted 06 January 2010 - 03:45 PM
i have to say, i was pretty annoyed with how my friends took the news. two of them were writing to each other on facebook about how lame i was for not having bridesmaids. ugh - so i took that to mean i made the right decision.
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