Posted 03 July 2007 - 09:21 AM
Posted 03 July 2007 - 09:39 AM
That being said, this is SO NOT normal for him! He was definitely motivated to take the stress off me because he knows how much I have going on right now. The moral of the story is, explain to your FI how stressful this has been for you, and not in the good way! Sometimes guys don't realize the difference between good stress ("I am really torn between aqua and torquise for my bridesmaid dresses") and bad stress ("I don't know what the reception dinner should be because your cousins are all vegans"). I just told mine what I did and didn't want and he just checked in with me before making any final decisions.
PS - there is no question in my mind that I am back in charge come July 26th (when I take the bar), but by then, I feel like all the big stuff will be taken care of and I'll be in charge of the fun details
Posted 03 July 2007 - 09:43 AM
Have you talked to FI about trying to pitch in more?
Posted 03 July 2007 - 10:14 AM
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Posted 03 July 2007 - 10:18 AM
Posted 03 July 2007 - 10:20 AM
| Originally Posted by Tlseege |
I'm sorry you are having to go through this. I hope that when I become engaged Shawn is at least interested in SOME of the decision making. But, being male, he will procrastinate. One nice thing is that if you are planning to BUY your grooms attire perhaps linen suits will be very cheap come the end of summer. It could wind up saving you money
Posted 03 July 2007 - 10:29 AM
On a side note, we had to have 4 witnesses our wedding and one of them didn't know until we called his name to come and sign the paperwork. Cain never told him..
Posted 03 July 2007 - 10:42 AM
I definitely got frustrated at times. My thing was, I was fine with just going to the local courthouse and getting married. If I ever felt like he wasn't helping enough - I'd remind him that this is for US - not me, I'd be happy just walking downtown and getting married. That usually was enough!
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Posted 03 July 2007 - 04:34 PM
Posted 03 July 2007 - 07:12 PM
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