Pregnant now . . . how much to change our wedding plans??
Posted 23 February 2009 - 12:56 AM
Did any of you who experienced this situation have to drastically change your plans? I am determined to still have my wedding in paradise!
I know that people will not be able to attend that originally were going to attend if the date is moved. Of course, people were bitching from the start when we first wanted a destination wedding. Now, in moving up the date, I can already hear all the crap that we are going to hear about being irresponsible, insensitive, blah, blah blah . . . as if we planned this pregnancy just to piss people off!
I also just booked a boudoir shoot right before I found out that I was pregnant . . . did any of you find yourselves in this situation? I was supposed to do an April shoot, which clearly is out now. Do I push it up to do it ASAP before I get too far along? I really, really was excited to do this for finacee because he would never think I would do something like this!
Any words of wisdom would be appreciated as I really never thought this would be something we would have to deal with!
Posted 23 February 2009 - 01:19 AM
Posted 23 February 2009 - 01:55 AM
If you aren't too terribly far along now, whose to say that the baby bump will really even show for the BD? Even with the baby bump, it would take the idea to a whole new level of sexiness
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 12:19 PM
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Posted 23 February 2009 - 03:39 PM
Posted 23 February 2009 - 04:39 PM
but i also agree that bd/maternity pics would be very special!
Posted 23 February 2009 - 04:42 PM
Posted 23 February 2009 - 10:00 PM
| Originally Posted by Christine |
you're over two months, gosh I thought you just found out. If you will be 7 months when you have the wedding scheduled I personally would move it up if possible but consider your guests and how much money they will lose. The only reason I say this is there is no way I wanted to travel to a foreign country when I was 7 months pregnant. For me traveling was not entirely comfortable my entire pregnancy. I did go out of town during each trimester and it was difficult.
I do not want to be that far along and in a foreign country. We are going to move up the wedding for sure; the question is whether to do it in April or May. I have been told May is really rainy in Jamaica, so we are leaning toward April. However, if we do it in April, my friends will not be able to come for sure. And I just found out that step-monster in law will be in England in May. I would love to have it then . . . but my fiancee's sister would also be out of the country at that time and he wants her there.
I will move up the boudoir shoot, too. I just didn't budget for it this soon. Oh well, some things are out of my control for sure now!
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