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#1 cdc0427

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    Posted 16 January 2009 - 03:50 PM

    Once again I have a question about this wedding I'm in on Valentines Day. I thought it was strange that I didn't get an invite yet so I asked her when she was sending them? She told me she did weeks ago. I told her I didn't get one and she said she was told the wedding party isn't supposed to get one.

    Am I just being anal but WTF. Why wouldn't we. Those are keepsakes for us too. Plus now I don't want to be the ass to ask her what time the wedding starts.

    Are you not suppposed to send to your bridal party?

    #2 jmiranda

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      Posted 16 January 2009 - 03:56 PM

      WTF Yes of course you should send invites to the wedding party. I have never heard about that. LOL

      #3 Betsy


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        Posted 16 January 2009 - 03:58 PM

        Hmmm - when I was a bridesmaid I have always got an invitation - to me and guest (b4 I was a MRS.). So does she expect that you are bringing your FI? I mean are you going to have to ask her that too?? I googled the question and the response was YES you should send wedding invitations to the bridal party - weird. Anyways good luck! I guess you should just call her and ask her??

        #4 northernflasher

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          Posted 16 January 2009 - 03:59 PM

          Thats a new one on me... hopefully the groom knows what time to be there!!! LOL
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          #5 Erika J

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            Posted 16 January 2009 - 04:05 PM

            that is the strangest thing I have ever heard. I have always gotten invites for the weddings I have been in and intend on sending invites to my BM's.

            #6 cdc0427

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              Posted 16 January 2009 - 04:08 PM

              LOL LOL, I hope the groom knows when to be there too!! That conversation I had with her was via text. When I told her I thought we were she said her wedding coordinator told her no because my fi and I are already on list.

              Now that I think about it she sent a text to me a couple weeks ago asking me his full name (now I'm assuming she was sending out to her whole bridal party asking who they were bringing and their full name) I'm so over this wedding already, actually from the beginning!!

              #7 cdc0427

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                Posted 16 January 2009 - 04:08 PM

                Sorry double post

                #8 foxytv

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                  Posted 16 January 2009 - 04:09 PM

                  Very bizarre. The bridal party should definitely get an invite. Has she been keeping you up to date on activities, locations and times?

                  I had several guests tell me it was ok not to send them an invite (BM's and guests) to save $$ but I sent them anyway.

                  I hope she didn't follow this mis-guided rule of thumb for anything else in her wedding, lol.

                  #9 sunsetbride1

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                    Posted 16 January 2009 - 05:02 PM

                    I have never heard of such a silly thing!!! The BP should absolutely get invites.. If you want someone to come to the wedding; they should get an invite. As a lot of us on here go, you can't assume someone is coming just bc they are in your BP!

                    #10 Jen_S

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                      Posted 16 January 2009 - 06:06 PM

                      Thats news to me not to send them to the wedding party. I think everyone should get a invite even the bride and groom :-)
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