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Did anyone cry at their ceremony?

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#1 Kits55

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Posted 22 October 2008 - 10:01 AM

Hi Everyone:

I am asking this question because every time i hear Canon in D i start crying...and not just like tearing up, but real crying. I'm not sure why, i think it's really beautiful, but not so beautiful that it makes me cry like other things. I think it actually sounds kind of sad. I REALLY want it at my wedding but I don't want to be crying as I walk down the aisle. I also think I'll cry at the ring part and maybe even the vows.

Are there any criers out there that did NOT cry when they thought they would? Also are there any non-criers that DID cry? I am allergic to alcohol so I'm doing this thing totally sober which is why I think i'll be crying. I hope it doesn't make FI bad because I'm SOOOO excited to get married but I just know i'll cry and ruin the pictures!

#2 Celina

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    Posted 22 October 2008 - 10:16 AM

    I'm almost married...and know I will be a big a** cry-baby!
    "Love is not who you live with...it's who you can't live without"

    #3 KAMAY11

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      Posted 22 October 2008 - 10:19 AM

      I was a HUGE cry baby!! Lol...and so was my husband! It was very cute. We wrote our own vows and I was worried I wouldn't be able to get through mine because I was sobbing!
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      #4 MarieSam

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        Posted 22 October 2008 - 10:22 AM

        I am such a softie, I can prolly bet money that I'll be boo-hooing at my wedding. Especially because we're writing our own vows, I can only imagine what a disaster my makeup up is gonna look like post-ceremony, lol.

        Nevertheless, I'm sure your FI will understand they are tears of joy ~ and catching that on film is a priceless moment you will appreciate years down the line. And hey a little touch up on the makeup and you'll be perfect once again!

        #5 ACDCDCAC

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        Posted 22 October 2008 - 10:23 AM

        i totally cried! but its sooo totally me to cry :) it wasnt all blubbery, and i was grinning the whole time, but i just couldnt stop my eyes from leaking! it's ok tho cause doug cried too!

        #6 ErinB


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          Posted 22 October 2008 - 10:34 AM

          I am a huge cry-baby. I seriously tear up every time I hear the National Anthem. Hallmark commercials get to me and they are only 30 seconds long!

          Surprisingly, I only teared up as I was waiting to walk down the aisle and then at the very end when we exchanged rings.

          There is so much excitement, your brain will be going a million mph so you might just make it through! LOL

          #7 sunset78

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            Posted 22 October 2008 - 10:40 AM

            I'll be a weeping mess...lol. I'm just that way, very emotional person.

            #8 JUSTUSTWO


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              Posted 22 October 2008 - 11:09 AM

              We both cried too. I blame him for making me cry because I was fine until we were standing there & I looked at him and he got teary. Ofcourse, that made me start crying...then what do you know my mom & a few other guests started crying too! The minister had to take a moment & stop speaking for everyone to pull themselves together! LOL
              It was sooo funny to look through our pictures & see how everyone was crying at the same time!
              I had totally told everyone that I was not going to cry & I couldn't help it!
              I also cried at the end of the night as we thanked our guests for coming.
              And even today, I get teary everytime I hear the song that I walked down the aisle too as well as when I hear our first dance song.

              #9 boscobel

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                Posted 22 October 2008 - 11:17 AM

                We both cried. His was much more in control, just watery eyes. and I was fine until I had to speak. Apparently, I can only control one thing at a time. So while I wasn't speaking, I was able to control the tears. But as soon as I had to speak, all hell broke loose!

                I really didn't want to cry before the wedding, but I so don't mind that I did after the fact. That's just mean. Like Erin said above, I also cry at commercials and tv shows and reding books or magazines. So if I didn't cry at my wedding, i think something would be wrong with me.

                #10 KatyKo

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                  Posted 22 October 2008 - 11:29 AM

                  I know I will be blubbering too. I have just decided that I will have to get some good water proof mascara and learn how to cry pretty :)

                  I cried in my car the other night because I saw an elderly couple holding hands as they walked across the street. Yeh, there will be no stopping my tears!!

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