FSIL/BF skipped my shower, feelings are hurt
Posted 02 September 2008 - 03:34 PM
Posted 02 September 2008 - 03:57 PM
I think you are right... If I attempt to say something tactfully, and nicely, it shouldn't cause a commotion.
I guess at the end of the day, she really hurt my feelings, and without them there at the BBQ my bridal party was short the BM...
I should be focusing on the amazing time we had on the weekend.
So many people travelled from so far to be there.
I'll try to be positive.
Posted 02 September 2008 - 08:43 PM
Posted 02 September 2008 - 09:49 PM
Posted 02 September 2008 - 10:01 PM
I would definitely get together with her in person and discuss your feelings and find out her reason. At least this way she knows how hurt you are even if she doesn't really have a good reason. You'll feel better getting it off your chest I am sure.
Posted 02 September 2008 - 10:09 PM
It's awkward, but they should really answer for it.
I'd just ask point-blank - Hope you had a great time camping - btw why didn't you make it to the shower? It looked as though you got back in time?
That way she has to answer. And even if it's a bit accusatory, if she freaks you can backpedal by saying you were just really sad she wasn't there and you assumed they were on their way and were waiting to see her show up all night... that you were hurt, that's all and didn't understand.
But don't give her a ready-made excuse. Wiat to see what she comes up with...
Posted 02 September 2008 - 10:13 PM
Posted 02 September 2008 - 10:49 PM
Posted 03 September 2008 - 04:40 AM
for the record, i hate showers too, but i'd be at my fsil's no matter what (even tho i don't love her).
Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:50 AM
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