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Are you sharing a room with FI night before the wedding?

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#31 royfa

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    Posted 15 August 2008 - 10:07 PM

    I ask him and he wants to spend the night before with me. I'm ok with that since I'm not superstitious... We're living together and I don't sleep well if he's not there.
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    #32 luvtoteachlaw

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      Posted 17 August 2008 - 01:50 AM

      Separate rooms. He will be with his brother and friends and I will be with my mom and sisters. It's like one more night with my family before I go off and begin a family of my own.

      I like the idea of not seeing each other until the ceremony. Even though we live together, there is something about him not seeing me until the big moment . . . I like the anticipation and excitement!!

      He feels the same way . . .

      #33 michelle08

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        Posted 17 August 2008 - 01:59 AM

        I had thought about sleeping in my girlfriends room the night before (2 of them came w/out their husbands and so it would be a girl thing) but that night was when alot of our guests arrived and so we all stayed up pretty late drinking and everyone ended up in our room ordering room service until 1:30am so by the time everyone left it made not sense to split up anyway and I was too drunk and tired to worry about packing crap to take to another room so we stayed together and had breakfast together then parted around noonish..

        #34 Hartyt509

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          Posted 17 August 2008 - 06:48 AM

          Originally Posted by DanielleNDerek
          We haven't even talked about it but im fine with just staying in the same room that night. Although i wouldn't mind having the bed all to myself that night without his snoring.
          I feel your pain lol

          Not sure what we are doing yet. I'm not bothered either way but FI can't decide lol He originally he said he would go stay with his BM and his wife could bunk in with me - i told him to bog off I'd met her handful of times and it wasn't happening lol

          So probs decide on the day but I have a feeling i'll be mashed with my best mate that night so probs won't know where I end up lol

          #35 Ms.Boo

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            Posted 21 August 2008 - 04:51 PM

            I was thinking that we would be in the same room, but I like the idea of a girlfriends slumber party now!

            #36 KAMAY11

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              Posted 21 August 2008 - 04:53 PM

              This is the onky thing I'm old fashioned about-I want like to spend the night apart and hang out with my mom, and BM's! Ideally, I'd like to not see him until i walk down the isle!
              I haven't told him this yet....
              D & K
              October 16th, 2008-Riu Palace Cabo San Lucas


              #37 samanthag

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                Posted 21 August 2008 - 05:32 PM

                My fiance and I live together but we have decided that the night before the wedding we will sleep seperately. I'll probably stay with my best friend so that we can wake up and meet the rest of the girls at the spa. He, on the other hand, will be with the guys. Who knows how much sleep he will really get but I warned him, I'll be looking better in the wedding photos!!!!
                And of course that's all that matters!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                #38 katieinkauai

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                  Posted 23 August 2008 - 06:10 PM

                  I am not sure what we are doing yet. I agree, I have been sharing a bed with him for so many years so I don't sleep well alone anymore. My coordinator also made the point that you end up calling eachother all the time anyway to talk about plans, last minute things, etc. That is a choice only you can make. Do what you want!

                  #39 SAM

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                    Posted 25 August 2008 - 05:10 PM

                    We are staying together that night as we are going to a luau that night and will probably go out for drinks afterwards. That morning we will have breakfast together, then we will go our ways separte ways to get ready.

                    #40 LOTTALUV92

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                      Posted 25 August 2008 - 05:26 PM

                      We Are Back From Jamaica And Are Officially Married, However We Spent The Night Together The Next Of Our Wedding We Went Our Separate Ways, It Was Fun Looking Around Hoping Not To Run Into Each Other At The Resort

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