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#11 T&N

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    Posted 25 June 2008 - 10:12 AM

    I'm sorry that your family has to go through this. We all understand how wedding plans stay on our minds 24-7. We're all here for you. There is no judgement here, only listening ears, words of support & possibly a few

    #12 Sarah


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      Posted 25 June 2008 - 10:13 AM

      Wow, life is so unfair. What a lot for one family to handle at once.

      It's totally natural for you to be concerned about your wedding. You've got enough room in your emotional bank to be worried about your FFIL, AND your wedding at the same time. It doesn't mean you're selfish- it means you're practical. Yes, this could have some effect on your wedding, and how much remains to be seen. At this point, just keep moving forward, and like Alyssa said, try not to do a lot that is non-refundable until you know more. Since this is a new diagnosis, it's going to take the Drs a couple weeks to get a "game plan" but honestly, you should have a better picture of what kind of prognosis he has soon.

      I'm so sorry.... hugs

      #13 Kristy!


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        Posted 25 June 2008 - 10:33 AM

        Thanks girls. You're all so sweet. I'm the big loser crying at work now! Good thing my cubicle is in an out-of-the-way place so no one can see me right now. Your support means so much to me. This is me accepting all of your hugs...

        I'll keep everyone posted as more information becomes available. And please, keep the happy/supportive thoughts coming. They truly help.

        #14 amandalovesryan

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          Posted 25 June 2008 - 10:52 AM

          i am thinking about your family and praying for you guys. it is okay that you are feeling the way that you are. it does not make you a bad person. those feelings are normal. good luck!
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          #15 DanielleNDerek

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            Posted 25 June 2008 - 10:54 AM

            You've probably dreamt of your wedding all of your life so it's okay to be upset at the thought of not having your dream wedding. But don't despair, everything will work out. I wish you didn't have to go through all of this, it's a lot for one person to take in especially someone who is supposed to be focusing on an event that should be happy. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.
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            #16 Martha

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              Posted 25 June 2008 - 11:06 AM

              I am so sorry. You are entitled to feel how you are feeling. I can't imagine what you must be feeling. :hug:

              #17 nikkianddean

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                Posted 25 June 2008 - 11:13 AM

                I am so sorry to hear about your FFIL. I think it's only natural for you to focus on your wedding. It is a happy and positive thing to look forward to. I agree with Becks that you should continue to plan and give the family something to look forward to together and hopefully everyone will be healthier and able to be there. At the same time continue to be there for your family.

                We're here for you whenever you need to talk it out. BIG HUGS!!!

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                #18 Yari

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                  Posted 26 June 2008 - 12:57 AM

                  You poor thing. We are definitely here for you!

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