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MOH is no longer coming to my wedding!

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I am sorry to hear your MOH bailed on you! While I understand declining the MOH role due to circumstances like money and other obligations but she should have declined when you asked her not bail mid planning! That sucks. I would let her know that while its a nice gesture of her to continue to plan showers ect tell her her help wont be needed! And get a new MOH! shameonyou.gif

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Girl, I can TOTALLY relate more than you know!!!

 

The very same thing happened to me -- one of my BM's (who I almost asked to be MOH) backed out for NO reasn via email. It crushed me ... still does in a way ... and DH can't do anything but spit nails when her name comes up. (He would love to see her out sometime and give her a piece of his mind, lol).

 

I know how much it hurts ... and I can't tell you that the hurt will pass, b/c it hasn't for me.

 

If it's of any consolation ... know that you are not alone in having this BS happen to you.

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Thanks for the support everyone! It does suck and I do think we need those badges because it does seem to happening to a lot of us! I finally talked with former MOH yesterday and we smoothed things over. I told her I was still upset but what can I do...I can't make her go! She said that she is still going to try her best to go but can't book the trip right now with everything so up in the air. We'll see. I think whatever is meant to happen, will. FI says that even after all this drama we'll still have the best times of our lives and he's right! All that matters is that I get to marry him and spend a few days with my closest peeps in Mexico!smile159.gif

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Sadly, I'm in a similar situation except my best friend decided she couldn't go from the beginning. I've been there for her through EVERYTHING, and we even offered to pay. She isn't going due to the fact of a dead-beat man who controls her life. When money isn't an issue then WTF is the excusehuh.gif It makes me so sad she won't be there, but at the same time it's her choice to let a man control what she does and doesn't do. Maybe your friend will get to thinking and change her mind?? wink.gif

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