| Originally Posted by mummergirl |
you said it, sister!
we're not really sure who's coming anymore. i'm considering trying to find a polite way to suggest to my bridesmaids that they can opt out of their duties if they'd like, since it's looking like tom isn't going to have any guys other than a best man. none of them have ordered dresses yet anyway, just not sure if they might be insulted.
Yeah...I hear that. My FI may not even have his best man there. It's a long story..But I have a feeling we may have to have his stepdad step in (no pun intended..LOL) and be his best man that day. My brother in law will also be up there with him, but they aren't Best Man close.
I would just be honest with your Bridesmaids, tell them we all know the economy is bad and you wouldn't be hurt if they couldn't come.
I had to say something similar to one of my BM's...She totally can't afford it, but her and I have been friends since we were 3 and she was like, I wanna see you get married...I had to convince her that there is no way she can make it...She has 2 kids and she just lost her job, I mean...My Wedding is important, but your everyday living is more important, Ya kno?
Anyway....They may Appreciate the fact that your ok with it.
I feel so bad about having my Wedding in Mexico now, And I know I shouldn't...But now that my brother can't come and my neices, I really feel like crap :-(
It doesn't matter now.I have 9 people booked and I estimate to have a total of around 20...That's a nice comfy crowd :-) And there is the video and Pictures for everyone else to see!! :-)