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#31 StephanieMN

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    Posted 15 May 2008 - 03:08 PM

    I am very sorry to hear about your very sudden loss. My father passed when I was 17 and I found little, subtle ways to include him in our wedding. You can find ways of honoring him and feel like he is invloved in your ceremony. I hope you find comfort in knowing he loved you and was very excited about your wedding.

    #32 Dez921714

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      Posted 15 May 2008 - 03:17 PM

      I am soooo soooo sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

      I agree, take some time off of the wedding planning and just heal.
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      #33 ericaandsy

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        Posted 15 May 2008 - 03:35 PM

        I'm so sorry for your loss! Take time for yourself right now. Put the wedding planning aside for a bit, because that in itself can get stressful.
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        #34 Sarah

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          Posted 15 May 2008 - 03:42 PM

          I am so very sorry at your loss. Losing my dad would be just about the worst thing I can think of...

          Take all the time you need to grieve and begin to heal. But, just hearing about how your dad was excited about your wedding, I know he would want you to continue on and be happy. There is absolutely no rush. When you are ready, things will fall into place. We'll help :)

          I'm truly sorry...

          #35 Kat81

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            Posted 15 May 2008 - 03:45 PM

            I know there is nothing I can say to help take the pain away. Just remember that your Dad is shining down on you right now. And if he is anything like my Dad he just wants you to have the best life and the most beautiful wedding possible. Always know that he is rooting for you and will be surfing out on the waves in Hawaii.

            #36 FYB87

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              Posted 15 May 2008 - 08:36 PM

              I am very sorry to hear about your father. I will say a prayer for both you and your family.

              #37 Christine

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              Posted 15 May 2008 - 08:44 PM

              oh my goodness, I am so incredibly sorry. My heart goes out to you, your dad will be with you the entire way I am sure of that. You and your family are in our thoughts and please let us know how we can help in anyway.
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              #38 yamille

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                Posted 15 May 2008 - 08:50 PM

                I am so sorry for your loss. Be easy on yourself and mourn the loss of your dad. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself and know that the wedding planning will all fall into place.

                #39 ~*petals*~

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                  Posted 15 May 2008 - 09:28 PM

                  I'm sorry for your loss-prayers for you and your family

                  #40 Thomasjsgirl

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                    Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:04 PM

                    So sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need to heal. You'll know when you're ready to move on. It's true when they say that time heals, and it's also true that you never forget. He'll always be in your heart. It's been 14 years since my father passed, and I still feel and derive comfort from his presence. I wish the same for you.
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