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Finding the strength to continue to plan my wedding

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#11 Pisces

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    Posted 15 May 2008 - 09:45 AM

    I am truly so sorry Melissa. I am thinking about you every day and hope you can find strength in the comfort of those around you. huge hugs
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    #12 Robyn Louise Photography

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      Posted 15 May 2008 - 09:52 AM

      Youre in my thoughts, I hope you are okay, and with time, things will improve.

      #13 Copita

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        Posted 15 May 2008 - 09:59 AM

        Oh, gosh. I am so sorry for your loss.
        I can only imagine that this must be a very difficult time for you.
        Hang in there and be strong. I am sur eyou have really supportive people all around you. This will definitely take time and you cannot expect to feel great right away.
        Again, my sincerest apologies for your loss.

        #14 Kristy!


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          Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:02 AM

          I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. What a difficult thing to deal with. Please let us know if we can do anything for you and know that we are hear to listen.

          #15 michelle08

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            Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:02 AM

            I'm so sorry for your loss! It is never an easy thing to go through especially during one of the happiest times of your life! My grandmother just passed a couple weeks ago so I have recently gone through it but to lose your father so suddenly and given his huge role in your happy day! It just has to be unbearable! I wish I knew what to tell you but just know that time will heal and remember all the good memories will help. Try and think of ways to honor your father at your wedding (there are some ideas on here) and that might help you get through the planning. But if you aren't getting married until next year...maybe take a small break from the planning and mourn and then get back into it. My thoughts are with you! :)

            #16 nikkianddean

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              Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:04 AM

              I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I don't think anyone's words will ease the hurt during this terrible time. Your father would probably want you to continue with your plans and celebrate love. It's hard to even think about something like a wedding when you are grieving, but I think groups like this one are definitely here for you through this very difficult time.

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              #17 ACDCDCAC

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              Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:39 AM

              oh man, that is so sad
              {{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}}}}}
              please feel free to cry and vent to us as much as you need, we're here for wedding planning, but for support in other areas as well. you'll be in my thoughts.
              i also agree, you've got plenty of time till the wedding, take time off and just focus on healing your heart. don't worry, the planning will be ready for you when you are!

              #18 Maura


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              Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:04 AM

              oh wow. i am so sorry to hear this. my thoughts are definitely with you. please let us know if theres anything we can do to help you.

              in the meantime, dont worry about wedding planning. no use doing it when you feel forced. its better to just give it a bit before jumping back in.

              #19 alex

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                Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:11 AM

                I am so sorry for your loss - you & your family are in all my thoughts.
                With regards to the wedding planning, you do whatever feels right. If you need to step back so you can mourn then do it. If you think that you want to keep planning, also do it. Your father would want only for you to be happy!

                #20 Celina

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                  Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:15 AM

                  Wow - I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how you feel. I agree that you should take some time out from wedding plans to moun your father. This is one of the most difficult times in your life. When you are ready to start planning again, we will be here for you. Always know that your father will be by your side in spirit. Always - on the good days and bad days. You know in your heart that he was happy for you.
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