How do you "Uninvite" Guests?!!
Posted 23 April 2008 - 11:11 AM
The more my fiance and I talked, through my many tears, we decided that wouldn't be a bad idea, except we've already sent out Save The Date Cards to all our friends and family. We'd love to send out a new card stating "We're Running Off and Getting Married!" ( In 3 months and only inviting family to join) - But how do we kindly "uninvite" all the other guests? We're asking for any suggestions, tips, advice you may have... please send them soon!
Tearful Bride from Wisconsin
Posted 23 April 2008 - 11:20 AM
Posted 23 April 2008 - 11:25 AM
Posted 23 April 2008 - 11:28 AM
Posted 23 April 2008 - 11:46 AM
Is the friend you had the fight with planning on coming? If you are concerened that he/she will do something to disrupt your wedding, you should say something to them only and/or make arrangements with your resort to have security keep them away from your ceremony.
If others have booked and truly are your friends, let them come! Don't punish yourselves or your other friends because one of them is a butt-head!
Posted 23 April 2008 - 11:51 AM
I would let this all blow over for awhile. In the beginning, I had major stress issues because I would get upset over who was coming and who wasn't coming. Eventually I decided to just be thankful for those that could make it and stop being upset because some couldn't come. It was an easy fix- I just had to adjust my attitude.
Posted 23 April 2008 - 11:58 AM
Just let your guest list self-select & sit back and see who ends up booking. In the end you get a group that is really excited about going.
Posted 23 April 2008 - 12:12 PM
i totally agree with everything karen said above. especially:
Univiting someone to a DW isn't just telling them they can't come to a party.
Posted 23 April 2008 - 01:09 PM
Sit on it for a while tho just in case you change your mind, you have to be sure its what you want to do and not just a knee jerk reaction.
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