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#21 Mel

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    Posted 22 April 2008 - 03:57 PM

    Kudos to you guys that can hold out. I made sure he was the right one and I haven't been with anyone else. No way in heck we could even hold out the 35 days to our wedding. We said no sex the day before...hmmm wonder if that will even work?! I think it would be impossible to not do something since we live together and have for the past 3 years.

    #22 Yari

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      Posted 22 April 2008 - 05:11 PM

      You girls are are so awesome! I personally don't have the strength to wait, but we decided that the week leading to the wedding the ride will be closed.

      #23 ErinB

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        Posted 22 April 2008 - 05:26 PM

        I'm not waiting intentionally. But with the stress of the wedding 2 months away, this being my 2nd busiest season at work, pulling 15 hour shifts and 80 hour weeks, it just doesn't happen! LOL

        I'm also on some crazy medication that zaps my sex drive.

        I would love to wait until our wedding night, but we are going to be in Jamaica for a week before we tie the knot! I know we are spending the night before apart, so that will just have to do!

        #24 Martha

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          Posted 22 April 2008 - 06:31 PM

          I have a baby ticker, so that's a "no" for me! :)

          But, I have a friend getting married in June and she and her FI have been together for 5 years and they are both still virgins. I think it's awesome and truly have no idea how they do it...they get drunk together all the time then just go to bed to sleep!

          Anyhow, when ppl at work heard she was a virgin they laughed and made jokes. Some people are rude and mean.

          #25 jajajaja

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            Posted 22 April 2008 - 06:34 PM

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            they get drunk together all the time then just go to bed to sleep!
            Are you sure they just go to bed and sleep? LOL My FI and I were like horny teenagers but we would never actually do "it." We waited for 2 years. It was hard but he was super supportive and would often times remind me of what I was waiting for if my judgement got clouded and I just wanted to pounce on him.
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            #26 Kat81

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              Posted 22 April 2008 - 06:35 PM

              Quote:
              Originally Posted by Just Martha
              I have a baby ticker, so that's a "no" for me! :)

              But, I have a friend getting married in June and she and her FI have been together for 5 years and they are both still virgins. I think it's awesome and truly have no idea how they do it...they get drunk together all the time then just go to bed to sleep!

              Anyhow, when ppl at work heard she was a virgin they laughed and made jokes. Some people are rude and mean.
              Can you imagine what a change of pace is coming for that relationship. I can't imagine five years with someone without having sex then all of a sudden it being part of the relationship. I wonder if it will be hard for them?

              #27 Martha

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                Posted 22 April 2008 - 06:35 PM

                Well, they do "things", but I am not exactly sure what....I know no intercourse though. I never wanted to ask her what they have done...but she has made comments that she not dead, just a virgin.

                #28 Martha

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                  Posted 22 April 2008 - 06:37 PM

                  Quote:
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                  Can you imagine what a change of pace is coming for that relationship. I can't imagine five years with someone without having sex then all of a sudden it being part of the relationship. I wonder if it will be hard for them?
                  I know! She just got on the pill too. She is excited, but I have noticed lately that she is kinda mean to him (okay, really mean) and I think for sure she will use sex against him when she is mad. Poor guy. They are only 23 though....

                  #29 Kat81

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                    Posted 22 April 2008 - 06:37 PM

                    Hmmm I guess I can't imagine. I think it's great though!

                    #30 jajajaja

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                      Posted 22 April 2008 - 06:37 PM

                      Quote:
                      Originally Posted by Just Martha
                      Well, they do "things", but I am not exactly sure what....I know no intercourse though. I never wanted to ask her what they have done...but she has made comments that she not dead, just a virgin.
                      Which is true. My friends always thought I was a saint because I was a virgin. That is until they saw me at the club. I was a bad virgin. If there is such a thing.
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