How Tacky is this???
Posted 23 January 2008 - 03:31 PM
Posted 23 January 2008 - 04:23 PM
| Originally Posted by TammyDez |
I am so sorry that youâ€™re going through this. I am planning my bacheloret party and I am so excited. I wanted to make sure that the whole thing is crazy fun and off the hook. I will take any advise or ideas from my girls, but I would like the finally say so. You might want to throw some ideas out via email to your friends and that way you donâ€™t feel like your doing all the planning or hire a party planner! Either way I hope you the best.
As Tammy said, this way I get to have the night exactly as I would want it. And I'm sure once everyone gets caught up in talking about that night, friends will suggest plans and different ideas for us.
Cool, I'm not really dreading this anymore - I'm totally excited!!!!
Posted 23 January 2008 - 04:32 PM
Posted 23 January 2008 - 04:35 PM
Posted 23 January 2008 - 05:05 PM
Posted 23 January 2008 - 05:15 PM
I'll end up planning mine- I'm kinda the "party planner" of the crew- and I'm thinking I would just like the girls to have a weekend at the beach in late April- so I'm planning on organizing it and it'll be a laying out/drinking/shopping weekend-- at least this way- you'll have it the way you want too!! :)
Posted 23 January 2008 - 05:17 PM
Posted 23 January 2008 - 05:34 PM
Now, the other side of it, is that if she isn't your MOH anymore, then traditionally it really isn't her responsibility. Would that stop me from doing this for my best friend? nope, I'd still do it.
Last, I agree with everyone else. there are a lot of "pros" to planning this yourself. You'll have ultimate say in the who/where/when of it, which is a really nice thing. And, you'll still get to spend the evening celebrating with your friends.
If I were in your shoes, I'd plan the thing myself, invite all the people I want there. But I'd probably be pissed off enough to take it one step further and NOT invite the former MOH.... if she's too busy to plan, then it's a given that she'd be too busy to attend. (Spoken from the passive-agressive side of me!)
Posted 24 January 2008 - 11:11 AM
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Posted 24 January 2008 - 04:09 PM
No one has any problems planning their own wedding so why would there be an issue planning your own bachlorette party?
You are asking for nothing of people but to go out and have a great time with you, no one will think anything of it. And this way you get to do what you want to do instead of someone else's idea of what your good time is.
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