Kay6356

Nothing. They wouldn't want anything like that I don't think. I know my FI could really care less about that sort of thing so I really doubt that he will do anything. What were you planning on doing?

Ebay! Just search ebay and I got them fairly cheap and free shipping... then I bought tanks in coral for my girls at Giant Tiger!

Hi Ladies,

I am searching for bridal party shirts or iron on decals - has anyone seen them anywhere? Thanks.

Originally Posted by BrideChilla 

 

We played a good "ice breaker" style game - not really bridal shower specific, but it was good because I had 25ish women from different circles.

It's the "famous couple" game - when they arrive, everyone gets the name of half of a famous couple pinned to their back, and by asking other ppl questions about themselves, have to figure out who is on their back. ie. someone will get "Brad" and someone else will get "Angelina". Once you figure out who you are, you have to find your match, and the first couple to do so wins. Like I said - not bridal shower specific, but people got to know eachother real quickly!

 

Another fun one was the Lei game - everyone got a flower Lei coming in and were told that you couldn't say words like "Wedding", "Mexico" "(fiance's name)", or do something like cross their legs. If they say/do one of those things and someone catches them, they get their Lei stolen from them. Person with the most Leis at the end wins. This would work equally as well (and more hilariously) with things like sombreros, cheap flip flops, etc.

 

We also played "Pictionary" in teams of 4 with romantic movie titles.

Great suggestions thank you

This is so adorable, I love it !

Kay can you tell me which Etsy vendor you purchased your embroidered handkerchiefs from? I know you posted it on here somewhere! I am looking to get one for my dad! Also were you pleased with the price and quality of the hanky and stitching?

Alley I have a link for you for the bouquet ..... This is what I followed! I am haing trouble wrapping the ribbon, my crafty bridesmaid is going to help with this part (fingers crossed). http://video.about.com/weddings/Make-a-Wedding-Bouquet.htm Deff. Ask for a discount since it is an off the rack dress, did you get a picture of it!!!! My dress I got off kijiji for $300 brand new with tags... Maybe you will get lucky My shoot today went really well, I cannot wait to get the pictures! Nerves went away after about 10 minutes in. Got some pictures with FI car (his baby) .... Wiki can't wait to see all the pictures!!!!! if any are appropriate I will share them with you lovely ladies

Hi ladies!

My boudoir shoot is on Monday, I am so excited/nervous!!!  Any tips for picture ideas, etc?

Originally Posted by alley08 

 

Absolutely. Make sure you stop by our party too! It's soooo nice that we will be down there at the same time! Maybe even on the same flight!!

 

No, we are getting married on the terrace.

 

How are things coming along? Any new updates?

It is nice!  Things are good, haven't been doing too much wedding stuff, too busy until September with both jobs.  I am slowly working on the bouquets, 3 more to go.... 

For some reason, I feel like we have fallen behind and Im going to be scrambling in October-we leave to get stuff done.  But all will work out

csho did you post a picture of your earrings. I would love to see them.

Kay I know you have been the ILA before. Do you think it would be too seperate to use 3 palapas? Is it true there are two closer together and the other two are farther away? I was looking at the photos you posted but I can't really tell... The two in the middle look pretty close adn then the 3rd and 4th farther away. I really want to have our dinner at the palapas but my mom thinks that it might be too secluded for each palapas? What do you think?

Originally Posted by jolene028 

 

Oh the dreaded booking deadline... I think it is the same for everyone the people that we didnt think were coming were the first to book and the people we thought for sure either took right until the deadline, or arent even talking to us anymore! What I dont understand is if I had my weddubg here and tou werent goibg to come wouldnt you just tell me? So whats the difference, just like people keep asking if we are having a party at home, no... people dont get married here and then a few weeks later have another party you are coming or your not! Trust me the deadline passing was probably my biggest stress relief! And we did have a few people pay deposits after but now the flight is sold out so I dont have to worry anymore

Stopped talking to you... thats not cool at all.  Doing a destination wedding means you know people wont be able to make it.  Just be upfront and honest that you cannot go, it isn't going to ruin your friendship. Ahh Im sorry your having to deal with that!

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Very cute Kay! Its hard to tell what the earrings look like. Are they studs or do they dangle a bit? From what I remember your dress has lots of details on it, so I think something simple and elegant like these items would be perfect! Especially if you don't normally wear jewellery.

Thanks csho, they are just studs, no dangle  There is a lot of detail around my bust area on my dress.

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Ok so I found my earrings!!! I am soooo excited! I never knew I'd get so excited for jewellery as I don't normally wear it! but I can't wait to get it!

Such a cute bracelet, I love it !  I am so not a jewelry person, but when in NYC bought a Tiffany bracelet and earrings which I think I will wear, no necklace as I don't want think one is needed.

Do you ladies think this will do? or is it too simple?

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Thanks Alley!

 

The end of our deadline for our group rate is coming up the end of next weekend. I can't wait for it to be over so I can stop harassing people to book! I found people who I didn't even think would book, booked first and now we are still reminding my FI's groomsmen to book!

Ah, don't get me started about FI's groomsmen lol, our deadline has come and gone & only 2 out 5 of his guys have out their deposits down! :|  

But just so you know, even after the deadline for the deposit people can still be added to the group booking up to 50, as long as the seats don't sell out on the same vacation package.  As the deadline releases all the seats to the public.

And I agree people that we didn't think would even come, booked first.  My two brothers haven't put their deposits down yet, such slackers.....

HI there,

I am interested in the following may I please get pictures?  My email is [email protected] if that is easier.

3 pearl necklace and earring sets - $1 each

4 hand made boutonnieres - $6 each or $20 for all 4

27 seashell coasters - .50/each or $12.50 for all of them

Thanks,

Kay xo

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Hey lovely ladies,

 

I need some help!

 

I have come up with two centrepiece ideas... I am really torn about which one I want to go with. I personally really like the one with the coral "vase". My sister, SIL, and Mom prefer the glass one. My FI says he likes both so to go with whichever one I really like. The coral vase option is what my original idea was - because I want to add some colour to the table and its very hard to find coral flowers and I do not want table runners. I like the glass one - I just feel like it doesn't add much colour. And I don't know if I am just being stubborn about the coral one because it was my idea and I went through the trouble to find the perfect box to paint and put more effort into it lol! I have added a photo of the venue so you can get an idea of what our venue will look like. I guess I also feel like the coral one looks a bit more rustic to fit the venue whereas the glass one looks a bit more "classy". Anyhow either one I go with I will also be adding another shorter square votive candle holder with a starfish on it attached with either twine or raffia. I'd love your honest opinions!

Deff. the "coral vase" - LOVE it!

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Well I was thinking if you were going, if you don't mind picking some up for me! They are soo expensive here! I found some at Michaels but were like 21$ for 4 or something ridiculous! Anyway let me know when you're going and we can work out the logistics!

Sounds good I don't mind at all, they are expensive here! I will let you know when I am headed there.

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Kay are you planning on going to the Christmas Tree Shoppe anytime before your wedding?

Hi csho,

Yes i deff. will be, I need more pencil starfish... do you need some?

Im glad you had a amazing trip! Cannot wait to see your engagement pictures....

We are unsure about a honeymoon, we are leaving for the resort before our guests.  But we aren't staying 2 weeks, we may do a 2 week honeymoon in Europe actually in the spring or summer.  But that is unsure, I was just asked to be in a my good friends wedding August 2014, and she wants her bacherolette in Vegas, so I will be off to Vegas next spring sometime.

Originally Posted by csho 

 

You are totally right Jolene... the venue is going to be so beautiful on its own you are right. I hvae rethought it and re-looked at photos of table set-ups and it really doesn't look like there is even mcuh space once to put anything once you have people seated on both sides of the table. Soooo I am definitely working on simplifying what I envision. I bought the really cute small candles in dark and light coral at the dollarstore they are pretty awesome! So thats my first decoration purchase lol and I am debating between coral petals or those diamond things (I think they'd work better as the petals might fly away in the wind) but I can't seem to find them in the colour I'd like... oh well I'll keep on checking!

csho, here is where I purchased mine.

http://www.ebay.ca/itm/330701699382?var=540058228007&ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT&_trksid=p3984.m1423.l2649

Originally Posted by csho 

 

That sounds nice! I think I have some idea of what I'd like to do now! Probably some smaller vases with flowers inside with ribbon wraped around it in coral and then some votive candles with a starfish attached with raffia. And then of course some more shells etc scattered over the table. Hopefully it will turn out how I envision it!

 

HOw was your trip to NYC?

That sounds just lovely

NYC was awesome, my friend and I had a great time and saw lots and partied hard How's Germany ? are you back yet?

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Have fun Kay!!! By the sounds of it you definitely deserve the break! No new planning for me as we're still away on vacation. But we had our engagement photos done on Monday and I am dying to see them! It was super hot and I was sweating like crazy so I am hoping you won't be able to tell in the photos, but she seemed super excited about some of the photos! She said it would be about 5 weeks before we get them on DVD but she'd send a few teasers to us in the mean time... so I hope they come soon! I can't wait!

 

Anyway hope all is well with everyone here and that planning is all going smoothly!

Cannot wait to see your engagement photos!

Originally Posted by csho 

 

Are you guys bringing table decorations? I can't seem to "focus" myself to decide on what to do for table decor... I find it hard, because I look at all these beautiful images on google or other websites, but know I have to bring everything we want... so I am not really sure what to do!

I purchased silk flower petals off ebay for very cheap in my wedding colours.  I am sprinkling them down the centre of the table and than just placing shells and starfish on top of them.  Simple and chic if I do say so myself 

Hi Ladies,

Its been so quiet, I have been super busy working 7 days a week and double shifts.  I am ready to go to NYC tomorrow for a much needed break from work! I hope you are all well and enjoying summer!

Kay xo 

Any new planning???