I actually have more friends then family coming. On 54 people there is about only 15 that are family. I think some of my family members are not too happy with the fact that it's a destination wedding. On there RSVP they only wrote no not attending, no congrats, nothing and I know it's not about the money, they take cruises every year !! My fiancé also has a long time friend who's been ingoring him since the invite. He never RSVP and we even sent him e-mails and stuff without any response !! We went to his wedding last year, had to drive 7 hours to get there and pay hotel, food ext. for a week-end. He could at least say congrats !! I mean I get it if you can't come, but at least have the decency on telling us instead of ignoring us !! come on !! Well this '' friend '' is no more welcome in my home. He could at least be repectful of us and our choices. I also had a couple of comments from people like.... ''well I can buy myself a new fireplace for the price of attending your wedding '' yes, true, but keep your comments to yourself. I respect there choices on not coming, well respect my choice on my wedding !!